I agree with applaya..I'm not a DJ at all so maybe i'm a little nutty or maybe that's why i'm not mr. stud with the ladies but you can't possibly be serious..the way i was brought up was that 2 women was to much...now don't get me wrong i mean i did kind of screw up once but i was always taught to find "a" wife and not just p*ssy. Maybe i'm just way screwed up or something i don't know...but 50 women??? 50???
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ's being brainwashed with stupid ideas.
- Thread starter TommiV
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I disagree with that 50 women thing. I'm all about quality over quantity and when I meet a quality woman I like to stick with her.
Nothing wrong with playing the field if that's your thing, but sex for the sake of sex can't be very satisfying. To be honest, most promiscuous guys (and girls) I know have very low self-worth and say they wish they could take back most of their experiences.
But to each his own. I can't preach monogamy to a player and vice versa. It's all about what fulfills each of us as individuals.
Nothing wrong with playing the field if that's your thing, but sex for the sake of sex can't be very satisfying. To be honest, most promiscuous guys (and girls) I know have very low self-worth and say they wish they could take back most of their experiences.
But to each his own. I can't preach monogamy to a player and vice versa. It's all about what fulfills each of us as individuals.
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I'm glad I'm not the only person who raised flag reading the 50 part...
Also to the OP, you are dead on right, at least to me, and it seems to many of the posters. As I read also, such as in the tips thread there is a thread called "Becomming a True Don Juan and Never Look Back." The aim to self-improve and in the process, gain a girl to compliment what one gained. Not just any girl, a girl that you would enjoy being with (a girl where you have to buy cars and diamonds is not a relationship the guy is truly enjoying). Sadly it seems much is getting convoluted with techniques that I must questions on not just its value to a person who, what I believe most people who come here are this type, the type that don't want to **** 50 women (though it have some... attraction... I guess), but the have fun with a few girls and get a that the person that can be happy with. Unfortunately, some are pointing in the direction of to not become true to oneself, but happy with the terms he want, but give his morality, character, and true self and imitate someone inside he knows he not.
If I'm wrong abotu the aim of becomming a dj, which obviously I hope not, may I be at least be right enough that my views or at least not completely necessary for life to follow this path.
Also to the OP, you are dead on right, at least to me, and it seems to many of the posters. As I read also, such as in the tips thread there is a thread called "Becomming a True Don Juan and Never Look Back." The aim to self-improve and in the process, gain a girl to compliment what one gained. Not just any girl, a girl that you would enjoy being with (a girl where you have to buy cars and diamonds is not a relationship the guy is truly enjoying). Sadly it seems much is getting convoluted with techniques that I must questions on not just its value to a person who, what I believe most people who come here are this type, the type that don't want to **** 50 women (though it have some... attraction... I guess), but the have fun with a few girls and get a that the person that can be happy with. Unfortunately, some are pointing in the direction of to not become true to oneself, but happy with the terms he want, but give his morality, character, and true self and imitate someone inside he knows he not.
If I'm wrong abotu the aim of becomming a dj, which obviously I hope not, may I be at least be right enough that my views or at least not completely necessary for life to follow this path.