I agree with applaya..I'm not a DJ at all so maybe i'm a little nutty or maybe that's why i'm not mr. stud with the ladies but you can't possibly be serious..the way i was brought up was that 2 women was to much...now don't get me wrong i mean i did kind of screw up once but i was always taught to find "a" wife and not just p*ssy. Maybe i'm just way screwed up or something i don't know...but 50 women??? 50???
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DJ's being brainwashed with stupid ideas.
- Thread starter TommiV
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I disagree with that 50 women thing. I'm all about quality over quantity and when I meet a quality woman I like to stick with her.
Nothing wrong with playing the field if that's your thing, but sex for the sake of sex can't be very satisfying. To be honest, most promiscuous guys (and girls) I know have very low self-worth and say they wish they could take back most of their experiences.
But to each his own. I can't preach monogamy to a player and vice versa. It's all about what fulfills each of us as individuals.
Nothing wrong with playing the field if that's your thing, but sex for the sake of sex can't be very satisfying. To be honest, most promiscuous guys (and girls) I know have very low self-worth and say they wish they could take back most of their experiences.
But to each his own. I can't preach monogamy to a player and vice versa. It's all about what fulfills each of us as individuals.
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I'm glad I'm not the only person who raised flag reading the 50 part...
Also to the OP, you are dead on right, at least to me, and it seems to many of the posters. As I read also, such as in the tips thread there is a thread called "Becomming a True Don Juan and Never Look Back." The aim to self-improve and in the process, gain a girl to compliment what one gained. Not just any girl, a girl that you would enjoy being with (a girl where you have to buy cars and diamonds is not a relationship the guy is truly enjoying). Sadly it seems much is getting convoluted with techniques that I must questions on not just its value to a person who, what I believe most people who come here are this type, the type that don't want to **** 50 women (though it have some... attraction... I guess), but the have fun with a few girls and get a that the person that can be happy with. Unfortunately, some are pointing in the direction of to not become true to oneself, but happy with the terms he want, but give his morality, character, and true self and imitate someone inside he knows he not.
If I'm wrong abotu the aim of becomming a dj, which obviously I hope not, may I be at least be right enough that my views or at least not completely necessary for life to follow this path.
Also to the OP, you are dead on right, at least to me, and it seems to many of the posters. As I read also, such as in the tips thread there is a thread called "Becomming a True Don Juan and Never Look Back." The aim to self-improve and in the process, gain a girl to compliment what one gained. Not just any girl, a girl that you would enjoy being with (a girl where you have to buy cars and diamonds is not a relationship the guy is truly enjoying). Sadly it seems much is getting convoluted with techniques that I must questions on not just its value to a person who, what I believe most people who come here are this type, the type that don't want to **** 50 women (though it have some... attraction... I guess), but the have fun with a few girls and get a that the person that can be happy with. Unfortunately, some are pointing in the direction of to not become true to oneself, but happy with the terms he want, but give his morality, character, and true self and imitate someone inside he knows he not.
If I'm wrong abotu the aim of becomming a dj, which obviously I hope not, may I be at least be right enough that my views or at least not completely necessary for life to follow this path.