"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ's aren't Mysogonists right?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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agreed , over at masf there are NO grey areas like here, its simple black or white, what works and what doesnt, no debating with chicks (touch wood it stays like that), although she would have to be pretty stupid to argue against logic........actually forget i said that.
anyway as i was saying no debating with chicks/captain save a hos, fly by nighters, AFCs, whatever about some made up grey area.
its quite simply ,what works and what doesnt, and 9.9 times out of 10 a bunch of guys swimming in the same direction.
PuertoRican_Lover
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
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Haha, actually, it's fastseduction.cizzom. Check it out puerto rican playboy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Damn Ice Cold, I think that is the the most thought provoking statement ever made on sosuave.com!! I think it is bible worthy - I'm talking about the Holy Scriptures Bible, and not the DJ bible!
Yup, I am on mASF and I agree. On mASF they see the humor in female behavior.
I think on this site, the idea towards women is so negative simply because the guys here have had so much negative experiences with women (me included). Due to being cursed as AFCs, we have had an excellent view of the DARK SIDE of female behavior. We have experienced the rude rejections, the foolish flightiness, the game playing, the constant mind changing, the manipulativeness, the selfishenss, the inability to reciprocate or even appreciate good treatment, etc...
And you know what, people? It's time to MOVE ON. We KNOW women treat AFCs like toys, even worse than the way we ignore ugly girls. Expecting a woman to not use an AFC is like expecting someone who finds a wallet in the street with $1000 cash inside to just leave it there. Sure, perhaps she "shouldn't," but you cannot reasonably expect her not to act out of her own self-interest when there are no consequences. Imagine if you were exclusive with a girl and a hot model offers you just sex with no chance of anyone finding out or any consequences at all; what would you do?
Instead of giving yourself away for free and whining about how women are just takers, simply stop giving yourself away for free! Instead of whining about how women "should" behave, take a look at how they DO behave, and act accordingly. She ignores guys who treat her well and makes a beeline for the bastards? Then make sure YOU are the bastard. Her behavior is totally variable according to the time of month, the alignment of the planets and her mood at the moment? Then play her mood, instead of letting her mood play you. Female behavior is evil to those who don't understand it; so if you think females are evil, there is a good chances that you still have AFC beliefs left that you haven't purged yet.
If you aren't getting the results you want with women, then whining about female behavior is simply a way to ignore reality instead of IMPROVING. The urge to complain about women is really a sign that you need to get out into the field and do some work. Then you will be able to laugh at women instead of having them laugh at you. Who knows, maybe women have a light side...or at least a slightly-less-than-dark side.
PuertoRican_Lover
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It is the afc nice guys who try to treat a hor like a virgin that get burned and become bitter. Just treat them like the hor that they are and you will never fall for their tricks again!! Quit treating a lion like a kitten!!!
Tryin to Grow a Chin
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In some cases . . .
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.