"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJ's aren't Mysogonists right?
- Thread starter Lingham
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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agreed , over at masf there are NO grey areas like here, its simple black or white, what works and what doesnt, no debating with chicks (touch wood it stays like that), although she would have to be pretty stupid to argue against logic........actually forget i said that.
anyway as i was saying no debating with chicks/captain save a hos, fly by nighters, AFCs, whatever about some made up grey area.
its quite simply ,what works and what doesnt, and 9.9 times out of 10 a bunch of guys swimming in the same direction.
PuertoRican_Lover
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
your mom.
Haha, actually, it's fastseduction.cizzom. Check it out puerto rican playboy
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
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Damn Ice Cold, I think that is the the most thought provoking statement ever made on sosuave.com!! I think it is bible worthy - I'm talking about the Holy Scriptures Bible, and not the DJ bible!
Yup, I am on mASF and I agree. On mASF they see the humor in female behavior.
I think on this site, the idea towards women is so negative simply because the guys here have had so much negative experiences with women (me included). Due to being cursed as AFCs, we have had an excellent view of the DARK SIDE of female behavior. We have experienced the rude rejections, the foolish flightiness, the game playing, the constant mind changing, the manipulativeness, the selfishenss, the inability to reciprocate or even appreciate good treatment, etc...
And you know what, people? It's time to MOVE ON. We KNOW women treat AFCs like toys, even worse than the way we ignore ugly girls. Expecting a woman to not use an AFC is like expecting someone who finds a wallet in the street with $1000 cash inside to just leave it there. Sure, perhaps she "shouldn't," but you cannot reasonably expect her not to act out of her own self-interest when there are no consequences. Imagine if you were exclusive with a girl and a hot model offers you just sex with no chance of anyone finding out or any consequences at all; what would you do?
Instead of giving yourself away for free and whining about how women are just takers, simply stop giving yourself away for free! Instead of whining about how women "should" behave, take a look at how they DO behave, and act accordingly. She ignores guys who treat her well and makes a beeline for the bastards? Then make sure YOU are the bastard. Her behavior is totally variable according to the time of month, the alignment of the planets and her mood at the moment? Then play her mood, instead of letting her mood play you. Female behavior is evil to those who don't understand it; so if you think females are evil, there is a good chances that you still have AFC beliefs left that you haven't purged yet.
If you aren't getting the results you want with women, then whining about female behavior is simply a way to ignore reality instead of IMPROVING. The urge to complain about women is really a sign that you need to get out into the field and do some work. Then you will be able to laugh at women instead of having them laugh at you. Who knows, maybe women have a light side...or at least a slightly-less-than-dark side.
PuertoRican_Lover
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It is the afc nice guys who try to treat a hor like a virgin that get burned and become bitter. Just treat them like the hor that they are and you will never fall for their tricks again!! Quit treating a lion like a kitten!!!
Tryin to Grow a Chin
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In some cases . . .
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.