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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJ's aren't for LTR
- Thread starter vagrant
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Who knows man, maybe she's the dependent type of chick that needs to have a guy worshipping her 24/7. Maybe she runs him around and he's her b!tch, or maybe she's cheating on him with an alpha. Who knows? Of course it isn't going to last, these kids are only 18.vagrant said:
Also, most women value a good looking face slightly more than a good body, from my own personal experience, but having both is the best.
Huh? A few months to get to first base? :crackup: More like a few hours if you're a real DJ.
I'm actually looking for a long term relationship right now, but the problem is that most chicks aren't qualified (and the one that is, the coolest girl I've ever met in my life, is moving to California in April.
Dammit!)Most girls I meet are either
1.) Too easy, and I don't like feeling like, in the words of PRL/LMS "the next pimp in line", and honestly, I usually DON'T SEX them because I don't really need to (my ego is already satisfied)
2.) We're not compatible. These chicks like to talk about what parties they went to, who they got drunk with, what their favorite season of Sex and the City is, and what they read in Cosmo last month. Yawn, NEEEEXT!
3.) They don't like the outdoors. Or they do like the outdoors, but they're ugly.
4.) They cheat on their borefrind with me (without my knowledge, I don't get involved with chicks with borefriends anymore), then expect to get with me. Then they get p!ssed when I tell them that they're cheating hors and that it would never happen.
5.) And then, like everyone, I strike out.
"If you don't fall, you're not trying hard enough"That guy is more lucky than anything, or maybe he is alpha and you just don't know it. Never be AFC, never be beta, and never supplicate. Go see 300 and pay special attention to Leonidas.
Serialized3 said:I'm actually looking for a long term relationship right now, but the problem is that most chicks aren't qualified (and the one that is, the coolest girl I've ever met in my life, is moving to California in April.
What part of California? I'll keep her "safe" for you
thanks for taking the time bro...cuz seriously my girlfriend tells me what she likes in a guy but it seems to me that what she really like is the opposite...it's weird cuz you try to be a man, try to keep your life and do all the things that you like doing but she get mad at you...i know i get her attracted to me more and more when i do that but sometimes she retaliate and do the same thing which what's hard!~
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well, I never really dated any girls back when I was an AFC. Farthest I got was taking one girl to prom and going out with her once beforehand and once afterward. But I wasn't really that interested in her (and I was about to leave for college) so things didn't progress further. She was actually the ninth girl I asked to the prom, but that's another story...
Most of the time, I couldn't even get unattractive girls to like me much. Since I renounced AFC-ism I've had considerably more success. I'm still not where I want to be, tho.
Luck is definitely part of the game. But if you're an AFC then you basically have to depend on luck. I don't think that's a good position to be in.
Most of the time, I couldn't even get unattractive girls to like me much. Since I renounced AFC-ism I've had considerably more success. I'm still not where I want to be, tho.
Luck is definitely part of the game. But if you're an AFC then you basically have to depend on luck. I don't think that's a good position to be in.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
To be an AFC is to relegate oneself to mediocrity and being average...I don't know about you guys, but I'd rather die than be average in the areas of my life that are important...
One thing I don't think many of the guys on this site realise is that being DJ extends far past trynna mac chics...its an attitude, a will, a desire to be the best u can be. Aim high.
One thing I don't think many of the guys on this site realise is that being DJ extends far past trynna mac chics...its an attitude, a will, a desire to be the best u can be. Aim high.