"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ'ing with no car?

BigMike

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Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jerry Maguire

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I don't understand,
you say that you don't have a car but you don't have a problem getting them over to your house?

As for dates, say that you'll meet her there.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by BigMike
Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
 

BigMike

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Re: Re: DJ'ing with no car?

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
Yeah, people think Im some kind of retard for my "problem" LOL

I have no issue with paying for dates. I dont drive cuz Im mainly in downtown boston. I dont see a car as a worthwhile investment for me when I get around quicker on the train or in a cab latenight.

My issues are quite lame actually. I've never asked a chick that wasnt my girl on a date. I'm much better at the whole persuasion and attraction thing.

Maybe Im getting old, lol.
 
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