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DJ'ing with no car?

BigMike

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Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
 

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Jerry Maguire

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I don't understand,
you say that you don't have a car but you don't have a problem getting them over to your house?

As for dates, say that you'll meet her there.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by BigMike
Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
 

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Re: Re: DJ'ing with no car?

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
Yeah, people think Im some kind of retard for my "problem" LOL

I have no issue with paying for dates. I dont drive cuz Im mainly in downtown boston. I dont see a car as a worthwhile investment for me when I get around quicker on the train or in a cab latenight.

My issues are quite lame actually. I've never asked a chick that wasnt my girl on a date. I'm much better at the whole persuasion and attraction thing.

Maybe Im getting old, lol.
 
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