"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ'ing with no car?

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BigMike

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Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jerry Maguire

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I don't understand,
you say that you don't have a car but you don't have a problem getting them over to your house?

As for dates, say that you'll meet her there.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by BigMike
Well this is my ONLY issue as far as ladies go. I have no problem getting them and getting them over my house. I'm basically wondering how do I go about setting up dates (Actual dates) when Im not driving?

I usually just meet girls and become bed-buddies or nothing at all. Lately Im in the mood to go out and have a good time with them.

Any suggestions?
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Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
 
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Re: Re: DJ'ing with no car?

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Haha. Sounds like a quality problem you got. One that most here would kill to have. If you want "dates" then you will need to pay for most of them, since they will be the ones driving.
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Yeah, people think Im some kind of retard for my "problem" LOL

I have no issue with paying for dates. I dont drive cuz Im mainly in downtown boston. I dont see a car as a worthwhile investment for me when I get around quicker on the train or in a cab latenight.

My issues are quite lame actually. I've never asked a chick that wasnt my girl on a date. I'm much better at the whole persuasion and attraction thing.

Maybe Im getting old, lol.
 
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