"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJing the DJ?

slickdon

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hey all. hows everyone been doing these few weeks ive been absent? okay well i have a question.....

guys...what can i do if she's DJing the DJ? Thats right! She is using all the tactics ive learnt and developed! How do i break threw this? Is there any reverse stragagies?


I dont really know what to feel right now. Is there any kind of advice you all can offer? thanks in advance.

slickdon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Leon Phelps

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guys are naturals too, except we have been de-instinctized (YES IT IS A WORD AS OF NOW) by the media and culture. Being a DJ is lettin that natural instinct take control again.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Negative.

Matrix said it himself, women created "the game". We're just playing it.

Before, there was no game.
 

LT1

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Negative.

Matrix said it himself, women created "the game". We're just playing it.

Before, there was no game.
I don't entirely agree with this.
I think "the game" is something that evolved over time as society progressed in the way it has.
Women did not create it, they just introduced circumstances into society that brought men to formulate and overcome. The game is natural, something everyone has. Its centered on achieving the goal of self-happiness.
True, women do play the game too, but they never created it, it was always there. However, women are the ones who capitalize on it more than men.

To anwser the original question, let me paraphrase what another DJ on this site has said:
If you and the woman are both using your "game" or DJing skills you will stalemate each other. Why? Because thats how it works, both techniques can't co-exsist without one of you losing ground.
Next her, or keep trying and wait for her to break...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kilgoretrout

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Negative.

Matrix said it himself, women created "the game". We're just playing it.

Before, there was no game.
Very nice..
 
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