"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJing female roomates girl friend...

shock

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My roommate, and good friend is a female. She has this girl friend of hers who I’m really attracted too. I have met her a few times briefly, and each time I was very flirtatious. I asked my roommate about her, and she said her friend actually was asking about me. I’m thinking sweet… she even asked if the 3 of us could hang out sometime.

My only problem now is my roommate. It seems she’s not too cool with me trying to date her friend. She has no problem telling me about her, but will not help set anything up with her. I need to be clever about this… I would like to start talking to this girl, who is at least somewhat interested in me, but not piss off the roomie or make things awkward. Personally I don’t think it’s weird at all… ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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typical

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Try and set up a date with just the girl you want no roomie, she'l block you way before you even say "hi".

You want to eliminate the roomie at all costs, go behind her back and set something up, anything really :)
 

DJDamage

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Who cares if she is not cool about it?!

Don't ask for permission to go on a date with a girl you want to pursue just because someone else doesn't like it. There is a thing called Facebook/myspace, find her on it and message her without your roomate needing to know.
 
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