"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJing at the Gym

Jay Jay

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Okay, don't burn me for putting this post here. I looked in tips, I looked in health and fitness and I looked in the bible but I could not find a definative post about picking up girls at the gym.

So if there exists such a post will some person hit reply and give me a link.

If there is not a post on this topic will some person who has had some success in this scene make one!

"C'mon Jay Jay," I hear you say, "you're one of these bastards who just turned up here and started giving advice like you know it all... now you are looking for advice and don't want to give any explanation!? What the **** is with that?"

Okay okay. Heres the deal.

Until two days ago when I was at the gym I was there to train. If you want to be successful at anything you need to focus on it. There is no point in going to the gym and thinking about girls (except as motivation!).

I always thought that if I start worrying about all the honeys about my focus wouldn't be where it should be. In fact... unlike every other time when I am Mr Sociable, at the gym I am like one of those quiet intense dudes totally focused on my own ****.

I am there in ****ty clothes, all hot and stinky, grunting like some animal... thats how I train... Not the best DJ image I know.

And then I changed my routine and went on a Monday and saw this girl who knocked my socks off.

Suddenly Mr Cool JJ who advocates busting a move and being a man and challenging yourself found myself transported back into the AFC zone...

Points you should know.

This girl is a solid ten. This gym is packed. We made eye contact, I was red, sweaty and dressed in an old Suicidal Tendancies T-shirt and almost fell off the treadmill when our eyes met.

So that's the story. Satisfied?

Now give me some ****ing tips about DJing in the Gym.

JJ

First person who says, "be a man" "bust a move" and "challenge yourself" gets a golf clap.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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edmond

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Jay Jay said:
Okay, don't burn me for putting this post here. I looked in tips, I looked in health and fitness and I looked in the bible but I could not find a definative post about picking up girls at the gym.

So if there exists such a post will some person hit reply and give me a link.

If there is not a post on this topic will some person who has had some success in this scene make one!

"C'mon Jay Jay," I hear you say, "you're one of these bastards who just turned up here and started giving advice like you know it all... now you are looking for advice and don't want to give any explanation!? What the **** is with that?"

Okay okay. Heres the deal.

Until two days ago when I was at the gym I was there to train. If you want to be successful at anything you need to focus on it. There is no point in going to the gym and thinking about girls (except as motivation!).

I always thought that if I start worrying about all the honeys about my focus wouldn't be where it should be. In fact... unlike every other time when I am Mr Sociable, at the gym I am like one of those quiet intense dudes totally focused on my own ****.

I am there in ****ty clothes, all hot and stinky, grunting like some animal... thats how I train... Not the best DJ image I know.

And then I changed my routine and went on a Monday and saw this girl who knocked my socks off.

Suddenly Mr Cool JJ who advocates busting a move and being a man and challenging yourself found myself transported back into the AFC zone...

Points you should know.

This girl is a solid ten. This gym is packed. We made eye contact, I was red, sweaty and dressed in an old Suicidal Tendancies T-shirt and almost fell off the treadmill when our eyes met.

So that's the story. Satisfied?

Now give me some ****ing tips about DJing in the Gym.

JJ

First person who says, "be a man" "bust a move" and "challenge yourself" gets a golf clap.
If you are a serious lifter, FIRST finish your Reps / Workout, then just say, "Hi!"
If you are like the other 99.99 % of guys walking around the gym with their d*cks hanging out, then STOP, your workout, follow her around and tell her she is so beautiful, that her sh*t does not smell.
 

NeedToImprove

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if i go to the gym is to leave all i've got in the exercises, dont give a **** about girls. but that's just me. think there are better places to meet hot girls, like the mall, bars, etc.
 

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I've chatted up a few chicks at the gym, got a couple dates, nothing beyond that though. I still randomly talk to girls I see at the uni gym, just to shoot the sh!t between sets and practice conversation skills. Ultimately I don't see it as being any different from picking up a chick anywhere else. If a girl at the gym is interested in you, she'll either smile, give you some solid EC, or come work out next to you. Personally I haven't done much DJing in the gym lately though. I'm very serious about my lifting and I'd rather stare at a$$ while panting between sets than fluff talk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Drum&Bass

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At first I use to think the gym was a place to just work out, but now I've got a lot of good friends that go there, plus lotsa of HOT, FIT single women..I'm all for it !!
 
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