"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJCorleone

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Got hold of a gym membership, gonna post here my results.

Schedule:


Monday - Chest/Triceps
Chest Press (Gym Machine) 3 x 8
Triceps Extensions 3 x 8
Pec Fly/Incline DB Bench 3 x 8
Pull ups/Chin Ups (Alternating) - Until failure


Wednesday - Legs/Back
Leg Press 3 x 8
Deadlifts 3 x 8
Dumbbell rows 3 x 8
Leg Lifts (?) 3 x 8


Friday - Biceps/Shoulders
Shoulder Press 3 x 8
Bicep Curls 3 x 8
Pulldowns 3 x 8
Pull ups/Chin Ups (Alternating) - Until failure


Include 10 minute warm-up on bike and warm-down jogging on treadmill. Include 5 x 20 crunches

Also gonna stop smoking weed, and cut down smoking cigs to give me more energy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJCorleone

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Haven't got access to a barbell, none in my gym, which damn sucks.
 
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