"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJBC - WEEK 1 - Group Green

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I am coming down with a cold so havent been feeling to well over the last couple of days :down:, willl get better soon. however finished the challange.

I started on thursday and finished today. making eye contact was easy and was not outside my comfort zone. On my daily travels and walking around town I said hello to strangers, first I found this awkward if they did not say hi back but after doing about 20 or so I soon stopped caring whether they would respond or not and became easier to do.
I got bored of going around saying hi on occasions and started to go up to people to ask for directions and general situational questions.​
best part of the week was asking this hot girl where the tube station was, where she offered to walk me there. I had a 10 min convo with her on the way there.​
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LostAndConfused

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Wow these exercises are bullsh1t. 25 greetings and I got into one argument and one full blown fight. Plus, numerous cold looks from girls.

I'm out. Good luck green team I'll be jacking off these 13 weeks.
 

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LnC how did u manage to get into a fight and an argument?
 

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First of all i didnt report yesterday cause there was a connection problem in my area(no internet for anyone in like 25km range).
Anyway the EC part was like a routine since i do it like everyday.
The greeting part was a little harder.Due to my school and bus timetable i only go out friday nights and only for 3-4 hours so i had to use mainly school and bus stop for completing my task. Got my 50 Hi's in 3-4 days and these included people from foreign countries who didnt speak my language so not only did i improve my social skill but also my english and german :up: starting on second task ASAP
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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