"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJBC - WEEK 1 - Group Green

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I am coming down with a cold so havent been feeling to well over the last couple of days :down:, willl get better soon. however finished the challange.

I started on thursday and finished today. making eye contact was easy and was not outside my comfort zone. On my daily travels and walking around town I said hello to strangers, first I found this awkward if they did not say hi back but after doing about 20 or so I soon stopped caring whether they would respond or not and became easier to do.
I got bored of going around saying hi on occasions and started to go up to people to ask for directions and general situational questions.​
best part of the week was asking this hot girl where the tube station was, where she offered to walk me there. I had a 10 min convo with her on the way there.​
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LostAndConfused

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Wow these exercises are bullsh1t. 25 greetings and I got into one argument and one full blown fight. Plus, numerous cold looks from girls.

I'm out. Good luck green team I'll be jacking off these 13 weeks.
 

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LnC how did u manage to get into a fight and an argument?
 

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First of all i didnt report yesterday cause there was a connection problem in my area(no internet for anyone in like 25km range).
Anyway the EC part was like a routine since i do it like everyday.
The greeting part was a little harder.Due to my school and bus timetable i only go out friday nights and only for 3-4 hours so i had to use mainly school and bus stop for completing my task. Got my 50 Hi's in 3-4 days and these included people from foreign countries who didnt speak my language so not only did i improve my social skill but also my english and german :up: starting on second task ASAP
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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