"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DJBC A-Team -Week 2
- Thread starter Evolution
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I am done with this part of the course.
By far, the most interesting one was #5.
I went dancing with my previous NC on friday and she
brought along a friend of hers who I started working on
immediately. I pretended to not know hot to dance so I had
her "teach" me and be with me for most of the night. The
night ended and all 3 of us ended up at her place, we're all too
drunk so I didnt do anything to advance any further.
THe next two i talked to a couple of people in stores and the last
ones, to people who always show to out car club meets.
week #3 here i come
