"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJBC A-Team -Week 2
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I am done with this part of the course.
By far, the most interesting one was #5.
I went dancing with my previous NC on friday and she
brought along a friend of hers who I started working on
immediately. I pretended to not know hot to dance so I had
her "teach" me and be with me for most of the night. The
night ended and all 3 of us ended up at her place, we're all too
drunk so I didnt do anything to advance any further.
THe next two i talked to a couple of people in stores and the last
ones, to people who always show to out car club meets.
week #3 here i come
