"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJB Six week reading plan

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diablo

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Originally posted by I-am-someone
Just so you know, the link to this thread is dead on the six week reading plan. (It's linked to sosuave.com/vBulletin instead of sosuave.net/forum)

Negative. It's dead because the bible is being hosted on a different server than it was 6 months ago (and 2 years ago). The original link in his post has been changed accordingly, thanks for brining it to our attention.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/readers.htm
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-am-someone

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No problem. As for all the other broken links on here, can't you guys run a query to replace everything that is "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" with "www.sosuave.net/forum"?
Shouldn't be too hard to do and would seriously improve the linkage in here.
 

Vincent

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I read everything when I first started but I don't have the need to read it anymore.
 

I-am-someone

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There are two options to solve the broken links you guys have here.

1) Replacing all occurences of "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" with "www.sosuave.net/forum" on this forum.
2) Setting up an .htaccess redirect at "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" that will automatically change the link "http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18753" to "http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18753" as soon as someone visits that directory.

It's quite simple really, just needs to be done.
 
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