"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJB Six week reading plan

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diablo

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Originally posted by I-am-someone
Just so you know, the link to this thread is dead on the six week reading plan. (It's linked to sosuave.com/vBulletin instead of sosuave.net/forum)

Negative. It's dead because the bible is being hosted on a different server than it was 6 months ago (and 2 years ago). The original link in his post has been changed accordingly, thanks for brining it to our attention.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/readers.htm
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-am-someone

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No problem. As for all the other broken links on here, can't you guys run a query to replace everything that is "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" with "www.sosuave.net/forum"?
Shouldn't be too hard to do and would seriously improve the linkage in here.
 

Vincent

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I read everything when I first started but I don't have the need to read it anymore.
 

I-am-someone

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There are two options to solve the broken links you guys have here.

1) Replacing all occurences of "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" with "www.sosuave.net/forum" on this forum.
2) Setting up an .htaccess redirect at "www.sosuave.com/vBulletin" that will automatically change the link "http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18753" to "http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18753" as soon as someone visits that directory.

It's quite simple really, just needs to be done.
 
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