"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJB or DJBC?

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hey guys, sorry im asking this, but..

what do i start with 1st? the DJB or DJBC?
i cant find info what should be read/done 1st.

thanks, the info on this site/forum, its gold for a wuss like me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Action speacks louder than words, do the DJBC, even though i am sure your going to get some guys to tell you to read the DJB first. The DJBC has articles from the DJB in it anyway for every week you do. Whilst doing the DJBC be free to read the DJB at your own leisure it will help you. I just don't want you to become one of those guys that just reads, reads, reads and does nothing.

Knowledge is not power at all....

Application of knowledge is power.
 
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sounds good to me dude.. starting the BC on the w/e.. will try to make my way through the bible too, though the bible will probably take a while..

i want to get out there & start improving myself..


wish i'd seen this site earlier, met an awesome girl recently (past couple of months) who was really interested in me, pretty sure i ****ed it up though.. hopefully this will also help me rekindle her interest
 
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