"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJB or DJBC?

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hey guys, sorry im asking this, but..

what do i start with 1st? the DJB or DJBC?
i cant find info what should be read/done 1st.

thanks, the info on this site/forum, its gold for a wuss like me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Action speacks louder than words, do the DJBC, even though i am sure your going to get some guys to tell you to read the DJB first. The DJBC has articles from the DJB in it anyway for every week you do. Whilst doing the DJBC be free to read the DJB at your own leisure it will help you. I just don't want you to become one of those guys that just reads, reads, reads and does nothing.

Knowledge is not power at all....

Application of knowledge is power.
 
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sounds good to me dude.. starting the BC on the w/e.. will try to make my way through the bible too, though the bible will probably take a while..

i want to get out there & start improving myself..


wish i'd seen this site earlier, met an awesome girl recently (past couple of months) who was really interested in me, pretty sure i ****ed it up though.. hopefully this will also help me rekindle her interest
 
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