PVSSY-EATER
Banned
which one of you guys are 41? Age aint nothing but a number too you know.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
P-E, she is talking about me - I'm actually older, I was 41 when I signed up!Originally posted by cruzy
I can't believe you're 41 and writing this bull. I pity your girls because they probably don't know what it's like to be with a real man.:crackup:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Myth.Originally posted by cruzy
Okay, this is why there are more female Don Juans in the world.
(1) It's okay to be sexually liberated due to the femininist movement.
(2) With sexual liberation, there is a chance to get hurt if feelings are attached so women are becoming more detached. Sexual liberation does not equal a liberation of feelings.
Again, this is going against the woman's own nature!Originally posted by cruzy
(3) A woman who takes care of her appearance has her pick of many guys. Most guys aren't pressing for monogamy, so she is limiting herself is she does.
Yes it is delusional. This is another ill effect of this ridiculous feminist movement.Originally posted by cruzy
(4) No guy is perfect, just like no woman is perfect. Men function in different capacities: ie. bread winner, listener, and good lay. It's hard to find a complete package. Women nowadays want it all, whether that's delusional or even fair, it's true.
Myth.Originally posted by cruzy
(5) It's okay not to have children right away or at all. This allows women to play the field longer and date guys who would not be suitable marriage partners or fathers..
Myth.Originally posted by cruzy
I'm not saying the feminist movement is a good thing, it has its pluses and minuses.
Originally posted by cruzy
The problem is that while women have evolved in some respects, relationship dynamics have not. There is no equality in relationship so far as I have seen. There is always the dominant and subservient one, and usually in long term monogamous relationships the man is the subservient one. And men wonder why the women with them don't want to put out anymore. It would be nice to have a meeting of equals, but is that possible?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.