"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ/Wingman database (djdb) is up!

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1utfan1

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Nice job!

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"I'm not a gentleman, or a nice guy, or a good fella. Just ask and I'll straight up tell ya."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inspector Clouseau

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Bump...

Oops! Didn't mean to hit you there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dee-Zy

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don't be selfsish and let us (Canadians) use it too


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Just be a real man, N do real shît,
Approach yo goals without fear, bîtch.
 
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Guitar_Whizz

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Hmm, will some of the UK DJ's please register on there, as I'd like to find a wingman and I live in England.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Broadband

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Originally posted by SexPDX:
Cool of you to set that up for us, Mike. I'll sign up later on. I can't believe I seem to be the only one from Portland on here.

Nick
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I've posted a few times about being from PDX, but your right there aren't many from around here on the forums. You wouldn't know how hard it is to find a fellow DJ in the area. Lets just say your 2 page post of what you did this weekend made me jelous I had noone to "train" with.

-Broadband

You should IM me on AIM sometime. Nick = DXBroadband
 
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Originally posted by CaliMike:
everyone can use it... =)
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It says that the search by area code only works in the states.



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Just be a real man, N do real shît,
Approach yo goals without fear, bîtch.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bump


Please keep bumping this message!
 
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Foreigner

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Hey Mike, Hey DJs,

Every time this thread is bumped to the top, about 10 new people join the database. In order to make this project successful, and really help us all, there should be really many users in the DB (currently, except very few cases, everybody is "alone" in the database in his city).

So, please bump this one up whenever you read this


Moderators, is it possible to follow Mike's idea and make this thread always on top?

Thanks, and keep bumpin'...


Peace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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