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i want to do it in the dj way, not like begging her to come or asking her, but ordering or instructing her to come with me. any advice?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
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DJ way of askin girl to prom
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
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i just said "wana come with me to prom?"
this bugs me sometimes prom is over thought by a lot of people that come to this website, not saying it shouldnt be for up and comming DJ's you all are just trying to do things right and are willing to learn ( hopefully ) but if the girl is single and has no date to prom if you ask her in a nice way you have about a 95% chance that girl will say yes. Why is that? because girls love prom the most of them don't care who it is if they don't have a b/f and a prom date they will be so excited when you ask them they will say yes, of course you got that other 5% that falls into im a complete ***** catigory, that will say no just because there not going with the caption of the football team or w/e. Now the issue isnt prom the issue is im sure you like this girl, and if you need advice on that because prom can help you a lot in this situation but you can IM on aim if you have it my name is xxdjweses89xx if not i will try to get back to you on here.
when asking a girl to do something, i kinda like the following formats:
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
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hmmm sounds good, i was thinking of asking this girl in my gym class, and i was gonna say, "so im going to prom, and you should come with me"
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that sounds LAME.frisco said:You seem like a cool girl (pauses, gazes in her eyes)go to the prom with me?( say it like you know shell say yes)
how about:
write a note saying
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will U go two prom with me?
[] yes
[] no
(check one)
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write it in crayons, bad spelling and with backward letters like a 1st grader.
... this reminds me last year how my good buddy had a SUPER hot student teacher with a bangin' body. it was a prom season already and he didn't have a date... so i did that exact thing to that teacher he likes to semi-"flirt" with (he's a popular kid). i wrote a note with bad spelling, backward letters, his name spelled wrong... well she said no of course, but she thought it was hilarious!