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i want to do it in the dj way, not like begging her to come or asking her, but ordering or instructing her to come with me. any advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJ way of askin girl to prom
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07
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i just said "wana come with me to prom?"
this bugs me sometimes prom is over thought by a lot of people that come to this website, not saying it shouldnt be for up and comming DJ's you all are just trying to do things right and are willing to learn ( hopefully ) but if the girl is single and has no date to prom if you ask her in a nice way you have about a 95% chance that girl will say yes. Why is that? because girls love prom the most of them don't care who it is if they don't have a b/f and a prom date they will be so excited when you ask them they will say yes, of course you got that other 5% that falls into im a complete ***** catigory, that will say no just because there not going with the caption of the football team or w/e. Now the issue isnt prom the issue is im sure you like this girl, and if you need advice on that because prom can help you a lot in this situation but you can IM on aim if you have it my name is xxdjweses89xx if not i will try to get back to you on here.
when asking a girl to do something, i kinda like the following formats:
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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hmmm sounds good, i was thinking of asking this girl in my gym class, and i was gonna say, "so im going to prom, and you should come with me"
Michele l'Arcangelo
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that sounds LAME.frisco said:You seem like a cool girl (pauses, gazes in her eyes)go to the prom with me?( say it like you know shell say yes)
how about:
write a note saying
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will U go two prom with me?
[] yes
[] no
(check one)
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write it in crayons, bad spelling and with backward letters like a 1st grader.
... this reminds me last year how my good buddy had a SUPER hot student teacher with a bangin' body. it was a prom season already and he didn't have a date... so i did that exact thing to that teacher he likes to semi-"flirt" with (he's a popular kid). i wrote a note with bad spelling, backward letters, his name spelled wrong... well she said no of course, but she thought it was hilarious!