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i want to do it in the dj way, not like begging her to come or asking her, but ordering or instructing her to come with me. any advice?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ way of askin girl to prom
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kev07
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i just said "wana come with me to prom?"
this bugs me sometimes prom is over thought by a lot of people that come to this website, not saying it shouldnt be for up and comming DJ's you all are just trying to do things right and are willing to learn ( hopefully ) but if the girl is single and has no date to prom if you ask her in a nice way you have about a 95% chance that girl will say yes. Why is that? because girls love prom the most of them don't care who it is if they don't have a b/f and a prom date they will be so excited when you ask them they will say yes, of course you got that other 5% that falls into im a complete ***** catigory, that will say no just because there not going with the caption of the football team or w/e. Now the issue isnt prom the issue is im sure you like this girl, and if you need advice on that because prom can help you a lot in this situation but you can IM on aim if you have it my name is xxdjweses89xx if not i will try to get back to you on here.
when asking a girl to do something, i kinda like the following formats:
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
"hey, let's go to _____"
"I'm going to _____; you can come with me"
you fill in the blank
Of course, when I was in high school i was still an AFC. I had to ask nine girls before I got a prom date (the one i got was fairly good-looking, at least). I guess these days we'd call that the numbers game...lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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hmmm sounds good, i was thinking of asking this girl in my gym class, and i was gonna say, "so im going to prom, and you should come with me"
Michele l'Arcangelo
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that sounds LAME.frisco said:You seem like a cool girl (pauses, gazes in her eyes)go to the prom with me?( say it like you know shell say yes)
how about:
write a note saying
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will U go two prom with me?
[] yes
[] no
(check one)
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write it in crayons, bad spelling and with backward letters like a 1st grader.
... this reminds me last year how my good buddy had a SUPER hot student teacher with a bangin' body. it was a prom season already and he didn't have a date... so i did that exact thing to that teacher he likes to semi-"flirt" with (he's a popular kid). i wrote a note with bad spelling, backward letters, his name spelled wrong... well she said no of course, but she thought it was hilarious!