"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Last night a took a cute girl out on a date and we got along really well. She even did Kino on me.

Anyway, at the end of the night I walked her to her car, told I would call her, and then she kissed me on the cheek. So... I kissed her back on the cheek and felt her butt. :)

We will see if I did the right thing here. I made it a point not to hug her in frend like manner. giving a girl a hug on a date is a bad move it puts you in the friendship mode. the pat on the ass was bold I think for the first date. I'm just very interested in her next reaction to it. any guess?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thank god for your grabbing her butt, cos that hug thing sounded like a one-way ticket to Friendsville.


I think that was a nice adjustment. Next time any girl pulls that ****, gently put your hand on her chin (palms-up) and bring your mouth to hers. Caress her face you kiss her. I guarantee it will knock her on her ass. ;)
 
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I would of done that but I wasn't exactly sure about her. She was only a HB7.

The next time I will land one on her just for sake of it.
 
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I use a lot of kino.

Have you ever considered giving HB's a high five? I do it all the time.
 
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there are many ways to do Kino.. the one I like the best is to comment on how strong she is in a sarcastic manner. and then feel her pipes. Girls laugh all thetime when I do this.

I didn't have to do this during my date, because she was commenting on her own pipes. She said, "look at my pipes". In a ****y way back I said,"yeah pipe cleaners".
but she keeped on doing it. I finally clued in that she wanted me to touch her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Flex for me" (HB Flex's and you squeeze her bicep) "Flex!" (still holding her bicep) "I said FLEX!!"

Of course the whole time she actually is flexing. Expect to get hit. I love this routine just because its so funny and playful.
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
Thank god for your grabbing her butt, cos that hug thing sounded like a one-way ticket to Friendsville.


I think that was a nice adjustment. Next time any girl pulls that ****, gently put your hand on her chin (palms-up) and bring your mouth to hers. Caress her face you kiss her. I guarantee it will knock her on her ass. ;)
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hmm.. I guess it is important to not worry about whether or not you are completely interested before you kiss her. Maybe I should change my approach in that regard. Kiss her anyway and enjoy it. If she turns away then you know it was a waste of your time. No big deal.

My problem is that I always think I can get better so I don't kiss them.
 
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