Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Last night a took a cute girl out on a date and we got along really well. She even did Kino on me.

Anyway, at the end of the night I walked her to her car, told I would call her, and then she kissed me on the cheek. So... I kissed her back on the cheek and felt her butt. :)

We will see if I did the right thing here. I made it a point not to hug her in frend like manner. giving a girl a hug on a date is a bad move it puts you in the friendship mode. the pat on the ass was bold I think for the first date. I'm just very interested in her next reaction to it. any guess?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thank god for your grabbing her butt, cos that hug thing sounded like a one-way ticket to Friendsville.


I think that was a nice adjustment. Next time any girl pulls that ****, gently put your hand on her chin (palms-up) and bring your mouth to hers. Caress her face you kiss her. I guarantee it will knock her on her ass. ;)
 

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I would of done that but I wasn't exactly sure about her. She was only a HB7.

The next time I will land one on her just for sake of it.
 

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I use a lot of kino.

Have you ever considered giving HB's a high five? I do it all the time.
 

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there are many ways to do Kino.. the one I like the best is to comment on how strong she is in a sarcastic manner. and then feel her pipes. Girls laugh all thetime when I do this.

I didn't have to do this during my date, because she was commenting on her own pipes. She said, "look at my pipes". In a ****y way back I said,"yeah pipe cleaners".
but she keeped on doing it. I finally clued in that she wanted me to touch her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Flex for me" (HB Flex's and you squeeze her bicep) "Flex!" (still holding her bicep) "I said FLEX!!"

Of course the whole time she actually is flexing. Expect to get hit. I love this routine just because its so funny and playful.
 

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
Thank god for your grabbing her butt, cos that hug thing sounded like a one-way ticket to Friendsville.


I think that was a nice adjustment. Next time any girl pulls that ****, gently put your hand on her chin (palms-up) and bring your mouth to hers. Caress her face you kiss her. I guarantee it will knock her on her ass. ;)
hmm.. I guess it is important to not worry about whether or not you are completely interested before you kiss her. Maybe I should change my approach in that regard. Kiss her anyway and enjoy it. If she turns away then you know it was a waste of your time. No big deal.

My problem is that I always think I can get better so I don't kiss them.
 
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