I decided to repost this cause im sure no one will understand the whole story from my other thread, PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
For some reason I keep feeling like we're gonna get back together, we still call each other and chat, still fight alot and yell at each other, etc....
I seriously am AFC over her and even drove over there at 3am tonight JUST to talk to her, she grabbed my cell phone and BROKE it all over her driveway, then took a bat to my car almost...telling me she wants me out of her life and that all i do is lie and EVEN though we've broken up and got back together ALOT this was the last timie (which i think she meant with all the hitting and breaking of phones which wasnt part of normal break ups between us).....
When we FIRST started going out , 2 years ago, I cheated on her (moved on) with one of her friends after that girl and her friend told me my g/f was a ***** and told me about all these guys she's been with and how at parties she grinds on all the guys and makes out with a bunch of them. After that we got back together (soon after, she cried alot after this too). When I asked her if she ever thought about doing the same (cheating) as a revenge thing, she said "im more mature than that. I dont seek out revenge from people for what they did."
Then (present), last night I get a call from my friend Kevin (whos friends with her too) and he was mad at her because she was pissing him off so he called me and told me she was grinding on guys and all drunk and ****.
So after I called and confronted her (she wouldnt answer her phone because it was 'in a drawer in her purse') she was shocked, then yelled at Kevin who said these things, then I had both of them calling me saying the opposite thing, then she cried like crazy, then I showed up to her house after work at 2am and she was hitting me and yelling and acting very ****y like 'i dont need YOU kind of attitude even though you could tell she was heart broken as hell.
I dont want to harass her or call her/send flowers/write poems because I dont think that would work (thats more smothering)
Isnt there anything I can do to get her to love me again!? :-(
For some reason I keep feeling like we're gonna get back together, we still call each other and chat, still fight alot and yell at each other, etc....
I seriously am AFC over her and even drove over there at 3am tonight JUST to talk to her, she grabbed my cell phone and BROKE it all over her driveway, then took a bat to my car almost...telling me she wants me out of her life and that all i do is lie and EVEN though we've broken up and got back together ALOT this was the last timie (which i think she meant with all the hitting and breaking of phones which wasnt part of normal break ups between us).....
When we FIRST started going out , 2 years ago, I cheated on her (moved on) with one of her friends after that girl and her friend told me my g/f was a ***** and told me about all these guys she's been with and how at parties she grinds on all the guys and makes out with a bunch of them. After that we got back together (soon after, she cried alot after this too). When I asked her if she ever thought about doing the same (cheating) as a revenge thing, she said "im more mature than that. I dont seek out revenge from people for what they did."
Then (present), last night I get a call from my friend Kevin (whos friends with her too) and he was mad at her because she was pissing him off so he called me and told me she was grinding on guys and all drunk and ****.
So after I called and confronted her (she wouldnt answer her phone because it was 'in a drawer in her purse') she was shocked, then yelled at Kevin who said these things, then I had both of them calling me saying the opposite thing, then she cried like crazy, then I showed up to her house after work at 2am and she was hitting me and yelling and acting very ****y like 'i dont need YOU kind of attitude even though you could tell she was heart broken as hell.
I dont want to harass her or call her/send flowers/write poems because I dont think that would work (thats more smothering)
Isnt there anything I can do to get her to love me again!? :-(
