You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks man, I'm actually in Vegas quite a bit for UFC events. Also moving to Tempe so i'll be even closer.Fallen33 said:You are doing REALLY good dude. You seem to be a bit of a natural. Just noticed that you are in So. Cali. if you ever plan on taking a weekend trip to Vegas, definetly hit me up. We'll go sarge.
Also MAD PROPS for getting dome in the freezer. Fvcking hilarious.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Of course that's what I meant :yes:Create Reality said:But Dude! It's a HB5Chubby. You lose! :crackup:
I think by HB5 you meant HeftyBabe5, right?
It seems that girls are just DYING to be swept off their feet by someone with DJ skills who knows what they are doing, i'm sure you'll be fine!green69 said:God damn, I'm supposed to be studying but I got caught up for 30 minutes reading this thread. Good job dude!
I really like your confident style. The scenario where you just grabbed that girl and then she sucked you off is a perfect example. You could've beat around the bush, wait for her to follow through - but instead you just made it happen.
It's given me so much more confidence. I don't have 1/2 the game as you I'm prolly not as good looking either but who cares? It's not that hard to get dates etc., especially when girls are giving you obvious signs of interest.
You just gotta go for it, like you've been doing and it's gone well so far.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.