Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Uber noober

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Hi, my friend recently got a girl with some afc moves. He talked to her on the phone for 7 hours. I thought it was SUPER afc to chat with girls on the phone for hours. my friend was being really afc and telling her all of his little secrets. The girl liked him so much she fingered herself on the phone, twice.Wtf is this? How is it possible? Maybe it just shows that the dj techniques are more flexible than we (or I) thought.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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strams4ever

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Your only 15, so am I. Most guys at this age are afraid of girls. ANY move is better than none, no matter how AFC it is. Also girls at our age are extremely horny.... no joke.
 

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thats what my friends and I call a "freaky b!tch" lol. fingering herself on the phone, wow. tell him to not tell people about that if he doesn't want her hating him lol.
7 hours bro, thats not afc. thats pathetic.
7 horus WITH her is different..and if shes already fingering herself, hell. tlel him to stop it. thas like an aim-pimp...only phone-pimpin. gay. lol
 

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Phew, 7 hours. I usually work that long in a day haha. But props for the whole fingering deal. Do what works best for you. You shouldn't have to follow strict rules to get women, if that works best for you, then do it.
 

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Do you know if he actually HOOKED UP WITH THE GIRL AFTERWARDS or if it ended with the phone

Its a known rule that talking to girls on the phone is a nono so how he did it i do not know...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jerky Boi

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Originally posted by skumface
Its a known rule that talking to girls on the phone is a nono so how he did it i do not know...

I don't really agree. There was never any set rule about NOT talking to a girl on the phone. Everyone just has always said that it's better to limit your phone conversation with a girl the first couple of times you're talking to her and save the conversation until the dates. I agree with this for a number of reasons. 1. You don't make yourself seem soo available all the time. 2. You save some good conversation topics that you can use later on the date (w/ kino) and 3. It's generally just a better idea.

I can understand where he's coming from though. If she's 15, and you talk about anything remotely sexual on the phone, in person, wherever. I don't care, she's going to get horny.
 

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Exceptions, and sometimes these things happen reguarly, e.g get girls with AFC moves. You have to be pretty lucky, though, but here, we have a crazy girl, go for her. Fun/Happiness is prominent, so give it your all.

And yeah, I think the guy was suggesting that 7 hours of talking to a girl is a bit AFC. :p
Having a chat, is cool, but I know how these conversations go if they're long enough, and it just gets silly.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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Yes my friend went over to ehr house the next day and they hooked up. He said that she was wet and horny as ****.

I have another theory now...

I have been recently teaching him to be a donjuan and he has been using the techniques. Maybe he used a few dj moves
when they were talking on the phone. This leads me to beleive that girls are reallly really...'easy'.
Lolz n00bz
 

08aisaac

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Originally posted by Uber noober
Yes my friend went over to ehr house the next day and they hooked up. He said that she was wet and horny as ****.

I have another theory now...

I have been recently teaching him to be a donjuan and he has been using the techniques. Maybe he used a few dj moves
when they were talking on the phone. This leads me to beleive that girls are reallly really...'easy'.
Lolz n00bz
Girls ARE really easy. You just have to figure out how to trigger it. lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by strams4ever
Also girls at our age are extremely horny.... no joke.

psh tell me about it. three girls i know, incoming freshman ( a grade below me) have complained about having their virginity. COMPLAINED about it. i laughed and said until they quit being so easy they're gonna have that virginity for a long time.
 

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I don't really agree. There was never any set rule about NOT talking to a girl on the phone. Everyone just has always said that it's better to limit your phone conversation with a girl the first couple of times you're talking to her and save the conversation until the dates. I agree with this for a number of reasons. 1. You don't make yourself seem soo available all the time. 2. You save some good conversation topics that you can use later on the date (w/ kino) and 3. It's generally just a better idea.

I can understand where he's coming from though. If she's 15, and you talk about anything remotely sexual on the phone, in person, wherever. I don't care, she's going to get horny.
thats wrong...Anti-Dump said "20 minutes." And 20 minutes is usually good for me...enough to set things up and chat a bit.
But the rest you said is right...saving the conversation for dates.

I was just saying there was a "Cult Rule" on the limit...

But christ SEVEN HOURS? When I was a huge afc I NEVER talked to a girl for over a hour. christ what a fag that kid is.
 

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Originally posted by Uber noober
Hi, my friend recently got a girl with some afc moves. He talked to her on the phone for 7 hours. I thought it was SUPER afc to chat with girls on the phone for hours. my friend was being really afc and telling her all of his little secrets. The girl liked him so much she fingered herself on the phone, twice.Wtf is this? How is it possible? Maybe it just shows that the dj techniques are more flexible than we (or I) thought.
1. Has your friend ****ed her?

2. My friend says some of the most AFC **** in the world, constant compliments, etc. Yet he gets unbelievable amounts of *****. He only says those things because he thinks chicks like it. Why does he still get gash? Because of how he thinks of himself. If a girl gives him **** of flakes he's outa there. He gives them good **** and he expects it in return.

He's willing to walk away. That + chicks find him really attractive, which might be the case with your friend? Or maybe the girls isn't so attractive?

Just some thoughts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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