"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ orbiters

djjizzyjeff

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Anyone else ever have friends or aquaintences who're DJ orbiters? Meaning dudes who sit around and expect you to do all the work/take the chances in meeting chicks then they approach? Or expect you to introduce them to chicks you already know on a consistant basis rather than go up to the chick on their own?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meaning dudes who sit around and expect you to do all the work/take the chances in meeting chicks then they approach?

lol ya...

Sorta comes with the territory though no? I have one friend, whose not bad game wise, but is unaware of the manosphere. And naturally since im the one with success, hes constantly asking me to "go talk to those girls there" or he ll say stuff like "Wow, that girls real hot" and expect me to do something about it. Its more expected than anything. He hasnt hindered me and half the time he holds his own and will close. Cant complain.
 

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Yes when we go out in a group I'm the one who does most of the approaching, especially for groups. I don't mind.
 

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Had a friend like that. He's in a relationship now though, so doesn't happen anymore. Back in college though...If I was going to the club..you'd bet he's going too. He's game-less, a little extra weight, but women don't seem to mind. Apparently he's that good looking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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