"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ orbiters

djjizzyjeff

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Anyone else ever have friends or aquaintences who're DJ orbiters? Meaning dudes who sit around and expect you to do all the work/take the chances in meeting chicks then they approach? Or expect you to introduce them to chicks you already know on a consistant basis rather than go up to the chick on their own?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheException

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Meaning dudes who sit around and expect you to do all the work/take the chances in meeting chicks then they approach?

lol ya...

Sorta comes with the territory though no? I have one friend, whose not bad game wise, but is unaware of the manosphere. And naturally since im the one with success, hes constantly asking me to "go talk to those girls there" or he ll say stuff like "Wow, that girls real hot" and expect me to do something about it. Its more expected than anything. He hasnt hindered me and half the time he holds his own and will close. Cant complain.
 

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Yes when we go out in a group I'm the one who does most of the approaching, especially for groups. I don't mind.
 

Justin Time

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Had a friend like that. He's in a relationship now though, so doesn't happen anymore. Back in college though...If I was going to the club..you'd bet he's going too. He's game-less, a little extra weight, but women don't seem to mind. Apparently he's that good looking.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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