"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

DJ Online Correspondence University... Classes starting soon!

Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2001
Messages
1,416
Reaction score
8
Location
st. louis
Hey MOTU,

Here is another idea that you may want to incorporate:

In the interest of space, I will just edit this post with all of my progress. I will just use ---------- as page breaks. That way we won't have a thousand reply's. My example is already started in Week 1.

Also, a question: Does each exercise build on the following week? Week 1: eyecontact and saying hi to 50 people. Week 2: eyecontact and saying hi to 50 people and striking a conversation with that person. If this is already explained in another post, forgive me. I didn't go through every post to see all of the rules. If not, could you answer.

Thanks,

Legend

------------------
"No passions, no life..."

"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Master of the Universe

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2002
Messages
396
Reaction score
12
Don the Legend,

"I am not sure if this would be a go or not, but how about visual or examples of what some of the exercises convey. Case in point; on the eye exercise, how about if we had some kind of movie that has an example of what and how to do the eye exercise. Let's say on a movie such as Swinger's(Trent is walking in the casino and he walks up to the waitress, etc..). We could post the time, the scene selection on the movie so we can just cut to the chase. Is this something that is doable? Or will this take too much time on the syllabus for the homework?"

Wow, I actually think this is a wonderful idea! Only minor obstacle is that I don't watch much TV or movies, so I don't have much resources to go by. However, if this is something you would like to spearhead, please e-mail me at [email protected]

Master of the Universe

------------------
"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

kapz123

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2002
Messages
22
Reaction score
0
Location
London
Yeap i am in on this i want to be simply the best out of my mates and show them how its done
 

mistyc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2002
Messages
709
Reaction score
2
Head over to week#1 then! Don't wait one more second!
 

metty

New Member
Joined
Apr 12, 2002
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Location
staten island, new york, U.S
i'm soo in w/ ya man, but it looks like i posted on late, the computer was messing up and well... u get the idea, so can u tell me if i'm not to late plz. c ya later man

------------------
live and learn and have fun while u still can
 

mistyc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2002
Messages
709
Reaction score
2
metty, it's never to late to start changing for the better!
Head to week#1!
 
A

andres_pv79

Guest
I AM INTERESTED IN JOINING THIS ONLINE CLASSES MASTER OF UNIVERSE !!!!
I AM NEW HERE AND I SAW WITH THE FEW THINGS I HAVE READ THAT I HAVE A LOT TO LEARN !!

Originally posted by Master of the Universe:
Fellow DJs, as I stare at my computer finishing up my taxes before the midnight deadline (hmm.... Maybe an extension is in order... oh well), I had what I consider to be a divine inspiration.

Let me start from the beginning... Four months ago when I first came to this board, I was as AFC as an AFC can be (let's see, last date I was on before I came to this site, not only did I get the girl a teddy bear, but also red roses... On a first date! The next morning I had an e-mail from her telling me she wants to be friends).

But after digesting all the posts, and the holy DJ Bible... I finally understood all my past mistakes, and how to become a DJ.

The only problem of course (and one that I've been noticing a lot of newbies, and not-so-newbies, making), is that it's one thing to know what to do, and another thing all together to actually DO it.

So I made a curriculum for myself. Basically, I created an eight week program based on the DJ Bible and a couple of other resources, that would take me from nothing at all, to becoming the DJ that I've always wanted to become.

Now, one thing about me, is that when I decide to do something, I go all the way. So I intentionally made my curriculum difficult, yet realistic. In essence, it was designed to get me to get way outside of my comfort zone.

After implementing my program for 4 weeks, I managed to acquire appx. 50 phone numbers, had two girls I was dating on a regular basis whom were giving me flowers, sending me gifts, and basically head-over-heels for me, and going out on dates on a more-or-less regular basis.

But even more importantly than that, was the fact that I was proud of the man in the mirror. I was becoming whom I wanted to be. Plus, it didn't take long before my reputation as a lady's man got around. Pretty soon, female friends and acquaintances were introducing me to their female friends, and everything was building upon itself. My confidence increased, I had more fun and excitement, and life was good.

The only thing though, was that after the four week mark, I stopped following my program. I told myself that I was too busy with work (I work 70-80 hours/week). The truth though was that I had gotten too satisfied with the results, and became lazy.

Now, here's the idea I had...

If other members on this board are interested, I would be willing to put my program on the board, so that the rookies and the reforming AFC can implement it, and also become the DJs that they have the potential to become.

And I'm not going to lie... One of my motivations for creating this online DJ class is that it will force me to participate all the way to the eight point mark.

Here are the basic items that will be covered...

1) Developing AND conveying confidence
2) Becoming comfortable with talking to just about anyone... In just about any situation
2) Approaching girls
3) Acquiring phone numbers / closing for dates
4) What to do on initial dates (1-3 dates)
5) Increasing a girl's interest level
6) Becoming an Alpha Male... The guy everyone wants to hang around
7) Getting the girl into bed (maybe... haven't decided on this yet)

During this eight week program, the premise will be that participants will be able to actually see results in their lives, since the curriculum is based only 20% on reading or written material, and 80% on actually going into the field and doing "homework."

So here's the deal...

If I get ten members on this board tentatively agree to participate in this eight week program, then in the next couple of days I will post a syllabus of what each week will cover. Then on each Saturday or Sunday, I will post the project(s) for the week.

During that week, it is the responsibility of all those who agreed to partake of this program (after tentatively agreeing to this post, and giving their ironclad promise to participate once they have seen the detailed syllabus), to post their results on the board, as well as to offer feedback to the other participants going through the program.

The culmination of this crash-course would be to go out into a social situation (several choices will be offered), create social proof even if you were to go by yourself, and become the guy that all the girls want to be around... And giving you the choice to select the girl(s) you want.

So what is the investment for participating in this program... It is twofold...

1) You must ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH! I will tell you upfront that this WILL take you well out of your comfort zone, and will probably require an investment of 5-20 hours per week for you to accomplish the goals set for each week.

2) You must post a minimum of once a week detailing the results (good or bad) that you experienced while completing the weekly project. Your post should be detailed enough that we can all make suggestions to help you in the future (if results were not favorable), or if positive, it should be detailed enough so that the rest of the students understand exactly what you did so that they too can achieve similar results in similar situations.

Now, will this be guaranteed to work? Absolutely NOT! In fact, nothing well.

With that being said, I personally can't think of a better method for someone to actually be able to implement the DJ principals on this site, and to achieve the DJ goals they desire.

Plus, since all those participating will be working on similar aspects of their DJ training, we will be able to support each other, and look at the whole thing as a fun learning experience. In fact, I'm willing to bet we'll be as excited to tell each other how badly we bombed as telling each other how successful we were (well, almost as excited anyway).

So here's my challenge... I'm looking for ten guys who want to become the DJs they always knew they could become... If they only had a road map to follow. And this challenge isn't only to new guys, but also to DJs that have been around here for a long while. This crash-course is going to cover many aspects of becoming a DJ, so even if you are a Master or GrandMaster DJ, at least you will be able to brush up on many of your skills while helping those on the program who are just getting started.

Okay, here's the deal. If you are tentatively interested in joining this program, then post a message to this thread letting me know your intentions. If there is sufficient interest, then I will post the syllabus in the next couple of days, and based on that you can make your final determination as to your interest in participating.

Master of the Universe

P.S. Some might think that they can just follow the program without agreeing to participate or posting their results... I can almost guarantee that these guys will not follow through to the end of this program. So if you want to achieve results, you must be willing to make the commitment.



------------------
Remember guys, winners
do NOT quit....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

mistyc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2002
Messages
709
Reaction score
2
Just read the appropriate threads and start posting your results! You don't need our permission to do that, and there is no subscription fee!
 

CleytonXtreme

New Member
Joined
Apr 28, 2002
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Location
Curitiba, PR, Brazil
Let me In!!
I'm 19, from Brazil
I've always wanted to be successful with woman, but my shyness have never allowed me(actually, I have never dated before) but now, I'm willing to do whatever is necessary to overcome my fears and became the man I always wanted to be...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

englishman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2002
Messages
647
Reaction score
33
Location
amerika
Hi, Im new to this site, is the dj bootcamp course still available????????? hoping so...[Who dares wins]Originally posted by Master of the Universe:
Fellow DJs, as I stare at my computer finishing up my taxes before the midnight deadline (hmm.... Maybe an extension is in order... oh well), I had what I consider to be a divine inspiration.

Let me start from the beginning... Four months ago when I first came to this board, I was as AFC as an AFC can be (let's see, last date I was on before I came to this site, not only did I get the girl a teddy bear, but also red roses... On a first date! The next morning I had an e-mail from her telling me she wants to be friends).

But after digesting all the posts, and the holy DJ Bible... I finally understood all my past mistakes, and how to become a DJ.

The only problem of course (and one that I've been noticing a lot of newbies, and not-so-newbies, making), is that it's one thing to know what to do, and another thing all together to actually DO it.

So I made a curriculum for myself. Basically, I created an eight week program based on the DJ Bible and a couple of other resources, that would take me from nothing at all, to becoming the DJ that I've always wanted to become.

Now, one thing about me, is that when I decide to do something, I go all the way. So I intentionally made my curriculum difficult, yet realistic. In essence, it was designed to get me to get way outside of my comfort zone.

After implementing my program for 4 weeks, I managed to acquire appx. 50 phone numbers, had two girls I was dating on a regular basis whom were giving me flowers, sending me gifts, and basically head-over-heels for me, and going out on dates on a more-or-less regular basis.

But even more importantly than that, was the fact that I was proud of the man in the mirror. I was becoming whom I wanted to be. Plus, it didn't take long before my reputation as a lady's man got around. Pretty soon, female friends and acquaintances were introducing me to their female friends, and everything was building upon itself. My confidence increased, I had more fun and excitement, and life was good.

The only thing though, was that after the four week mark, I stopped following my program. I told myself that I was too busy with work (I work 70-80 hours/week). The truth though was that I had gotten too satisfied with the results, and became lazy.

Now, here's the idea I had...

If other members on this board are interested, I would be willing to put my program on the board, so that the rookies and the reforming AFC can implement it, and also become the DJs that they have the potential to become.

And I'm not going to lie... One of my motivations for creating this online DJ class is that it will force me to participate all the way to the eight point mark.

Here are the basic items that will be covered...

1) Developing AND conveying confidence
2) Becoming comfortable with talking to just about anyone... In just about any situation
2) Approaching girls
3) Acquiring phone numbers / closing for dates
4) What to do on initial dates (1-3 dates)
5) Increasing a girl's interest level
6) Becoming an Alpha Male... The guy everyone wants to hang around
7) Getting the girl into bed (maybe... haven't decided on this yet)

During this eight week program, the premise will be that participants will be able to actually see results in their lives, since the curriculum is based only 20% on reading or written material, and 80% on actually going into the field and doing "homework."

So here's the deal...

If I get ten members on this board tentatively agree to participate in this eight week program, then in the next couple of days I will post a syllabus of what each week will cover. Then on each Saturday or Sunday, I will post the project(s) for the week.

During that week, it is the responsibility of all those who agreed to partake of this program (after tentatively agreeing to this post, and giving their ironclad promise to participate once they have seen the detailed syllabus), to post their results on the board, as well as to offer feedback to the other participants going through the program.

The culmination of this crash-course would be to go out into a social situation (several choices will be offered), create social proof even if you were to go by yourself, and become the guy that all the girls want to be around... And giving you the choice to select the girl(s) you want.

So what is the investment for participating in this program... It is twofold...

1) You must ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH! I will tell you upfront that this WILL take you well out of your comfort zone, and will probably require an investment of 5-20 hours per week for you to accomplish the goals set for each week.

2) You must post a minimum of once a week detailing the results (good or bad) that you experienced while completing the weekly project. Your post should be detailed enough that we can all make suggestions to help you in the future (if results were not favorable), or if positive, it should be detailed enough so that the rest of the students understand exactly what you did so that they too can achieve similar results in similar situations.

Now, will this be guaranteed to work? Absolutely NOT! In fact, nothing well.

With that being said, I personally can't think of a better method for someone to actually be able to implement the DJ principals on this site, and to achieve the DJ goals they desire.

Plus, since all those participating will be working on similar aspects of their DJ training, we will be able to support each other, and look at the whole thing as a fun learning experience. In fact, I'm willing to bet we'll be as excited to tell each other how badly we bombed as telling each other how successful we were (well, almost as excited anyway).

So here's my challenge... I'm looking for ten guys who want to become the DJs they always knew they could become... If they only had a road map to follow. And this challenge isn't only to new guys, but also to DJs that have been around here for a long while. This crash-course is going to cover many aspects of becoming a DJ, so even if you are a Master or GrandMaster DJ, at least you will be able to brush up on many of your skills while helping those on the program who are just getting started.

Okay, here's the deal. If you are tentatively interested in joining this program, then post a message to this thread letting me know your intentions. If there is sufficient interest, then I will post the syllabus in the next couple of days, and based on that you can make your final determination as to your interest in participating.

Master of the Universe

P.S. Some might think that they can just follow the program without agreeing to participate or posting their results... I can almost guarantee that these guys will not follow through to the end of this program. So if you want to achieve results, you must be willing to make the commitment.

[/QUOTE]
 

PimpSir

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2002
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
ATLANTA, GA United States
Originally posted by Master of the Universe:
Fellow DJs, as I stare at my computer finishing up my taxes before the midnight deadline (hmm.... Maybe an extension is in order... oh well), I had what I consider to be a divine inspiration.

Let me start from the beginning... Four months ago when I first came to this board, I was as AFC as an AFC can be (let's see, last date I was on before I came to this site, not only did I get the girl a teddy bear, but also red roses... On a first date! The next morning I had an e-mail from her telling me she wants to be friends).

But after digesting all the posts, and the holy DJ Bible... I finally understood all my past mistakes, and how to become a DJ.

The only problem of course (and one that I've been noticing a lot of newbies, and not-so-newbies, making), is that it's one thing to know what to do, and another thing all together to actually DO it.

So I made a curriculum for myself. Basically, I created an eight week program based on the DJ Bible and a couple of other resources, that would take me from nothing at all, to becoming the DJ that I've always wanted to become.

Now, one thing about me, is that when I decide to do something, I go all the way. So I intentionally made my curriculum difficult, yet realistic. In essence, it was designed to get me to get way outside of my comfort zone.

After implementing my program for 4 weeks, I managed to acquire appx. 50 phone numbers, had two girls I was dating on a regular basis whom were giving me flowers, sending me gifts, and basically head-over-heels for me, and going out on dates on a more-or-less regular basis.

But even more importantly than that, was the fact that I was proud of the man in the mirror. I was becoming whom I wanted to be. Plus, it didn't take long before my reputation as a lady's man got around. Pretty soon, female friends and acquaintances were introducing me to their female friends, and everything was building upon itself. My confidence increased, I had more fun and excitement, and life was good.

The only thing though, was that after the four week mark, I stopped following my program. I told myself that I was too busy with work (I work 70-80 hours/week). The truth though was that I had gotten too satisfied with the results, and became lazy.

Now, here's the idea I had...

If other members on this board are interested, I would be willing to put my program on the board, so that the rookies and the reforming AFC can implement it, and also become the DJs that they have the potential to become.

And I'm not going to lie... One of my motivations for creating this online DJ class is that it will force me to participate all the way to the eight point mark.

Here are the basic items that will be covered...

1) Developing AND conveying confidence
2) Becoming comfortable with talking to just about anyone... In just about any situation
2) Approaching girls
3) Acquiring phone numbers / closing for dates
4) What to do on initial dates (1-3 dates)
5) Increasing a girl's interest level
6) Becoming an Alpha Male... The guy everyone wants to hang around
7) Getting the girl into bed (maybe... haven't decided on this yet)

During this eight week program, the premise will be that participants will be able to actually see results in their lives, since the curriculum is based only 20% on reading or written material, and 80% on actually going into the field and doing "homework."

So here's the deal...

If I get ten members on this board tentatively agree to participate in this eight week program, then in the next couple of days I will post a syllabus of what each week will cover. Then on each Saturday or Sunday, I will post the project(s) for the week.

During that week, it is the responsibility of all those who agreed to partake of this program (after tentatively agreeing to this post, and giving their ironclad promise to participate once they have seen the detailed syllabus), to post their results on the board, as well as to offer feedback to the other participants going through the program.

The culmination of this crash-course would be to go out into a social situation (several choices will be offered), create social proof even if you were to go by yourself, and become the guy that all the girls want to be around... And giving you the choice to select the girl(s) you want.

So what is the investment for participating in this program... It is twofold...

1) You must ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH! I will tell you upfront that this WILL take you well out of your comfort zone, and will probably require an investment of 5-20 hours per week for you to accomplish the goals set for each week.

2) You must post a minimum of once a week detailing the results (good or bad) that you experienced while completing the weekly project. Your post should be detailed enough that we can all make suggestions to help you in the future (if results were not favorable), or if positive, it should be detailed enough so that the rest of the students understand exactly what you did so that they too can achieve similar results in similar situations.

Now, will this be guaranteed to work? Absolutely NOT! In fact, nothing well.

With that being said, I personally can't think of a better method for someone to actually be able to implement the DJ principals on this site, and to achieve the DJ goals they desire.

Plus, since all those participating will be working on similar aspects of their DJ training, we will be able to support each other, and look at the whole thing as a fun learning experience. In fact, I'm willing to bet we'll be as excited to tell each other how badly we bombed as telling each other how successful we were (well, almost as excited anyway).

So here's my challenge... I'm looking for ten guys who want to become the DJs they always knew they could become... If they only had a road map to follow. And this challenge isn't only to new guys, but also to DJs that have been around here for a long while. This crash-course is going to cover many aspects of becoming a DJ, so even if you are a Master or GrandMaster DJ, at least you will be able to brush up on many of your skills while helping those on the program who are just getting started.

Okay, here's the deal. If you are tentatively interested in joining this program, then post a message to this thread letting me know your intentions. If there is sufficient interest, then I will post the syllabus in the next couple of days, and based on that you can make your final determination as to your interest in participating.

Master of the Universe

P.S. Some might think that they can just follow the program without agreeing to participate or posting their results... I can almost guarantee that these guys will not follow through to the end of this program. So if you want to achieve results, you must be willing to make the commitment.

 

PimpSir

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2002
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
ATLANTA, GA United States
I got to get used to this internet ****. I wrote a longass reply, but all I see is the quote. NE way. Holla at me. Send me the syllabus. I live the ATL. If you don't know, come see about it. The pimpin's real good down here. I just ain't been schooled to pimpin', mackin', bein' a DJ. I do know I can't see myself at the same level as these *****-whipped-ass dudes or I-get-everything-I-want broads. You can't have a good w/o a bad. Same things applies to up and down. Someone has to be on top, might as well be me, or better yet WE. We few, We Proud, We being all that we know how to be, Don Mutha-****in' Juans. Anyway, Peace. Holla at me.
 

TheManiac

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2002
Messages
50
Reaction score
0
Age
66
Location
Charlotte, NC, USA
I just now checked out the Bible, everyones been tellin me to for frickin ever, but whatever, if its still available then email me the syllabus and count me in
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top