“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Calling all New York Metro Area DJs!

The DJ forums can be a great place to visit, but sometimes we
need to talk things over face to face with other men. That's just
what me and my buddy (two mature DJs who met right here on SoSuave) have been doing. We've met twice already and have had a great time discussing our relationships with women, and other issues which effect us as men.

We've learned a lot and had a bunch of fun too and now, we're ready to expand our group and turn it into a monthly happening that can help more guys. So we are inviting any New York area based DJs (mature or not) to join us every month for a couple drinks, and some stimulating, entertaining, and educational conversation.

We're scoping out fun, but mellow bars in the Times Square area of Manhattan. We'd like to get a good sized group going asap with perhaps a new topic of discussion every month. We're also
open to your ideas for the group too!

Let me know if you have any questions.

mj
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Count me in hombres: [email protected]. If you're still considering venues, The Cutting Room on 24th & 6th is solid, though perhaps a bit south of the proposed target -
 

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hey you young ins...we might be too old for you guys but you ought to get your own group going. You have a good start already..


regards
 

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yea,
I sent an e-mail to the young guys, we think we're gonna start a group of our own.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Silki, we are shooting for mid december. We usually try and meet on tuesday evening. Does that work for you?

Mike
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wait!

R u guys in the young man meetup group, or the older man meet up group?
 
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