"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dapper Swindler

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In my progress the last few weeks I have found that it has been very useful to keep a journal. A journal keeps me motivated by capturing my progress and gives me time to reflect on things. My bootcamp journal sort of devolved into this. I've found it very helpful when people can post comments and advice about what I'm doing. And maybe my journal even inspires others like me. But rather than continue posting in that thread I decided to start a livejournal. I think it would be a great opportunity for aspiring DJs to start a community so we can read and comment on each others' progress without creating so many threads on the discussion forum here. I think it would create a stronger sense of belonging and encouragement among aspiring DJs and that would be a very helpful thing. Here is the link to my journal:

http://www.livejournal.com/users/dapper_swindler/

If you're not interested in starting your own journal, you can still comment on others. If you want to start a journal and join this DJ community then you have to have someone with a livejournal account already to give you permission. I'm not sure if that person has to have a paid account or not (mine is free).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Walden

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Yo DS I just linked you to my page.
Good luck and good hunting.
 
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I put you on my "friends" list, anyway.
 

Dapper Swindler

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bump
 

comic_relief

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Journals

my journal is over at Eternals site.

I am probably going to read as many journals as I can though. So keep updating.

Mine is long because that I started mine on July 18th.

Keep updating and give me more journals to read guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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