"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dapper Swindler

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In my progress the last few weeks I have found that it has been very useful to keep a journal. A journal keeps me motivated by capturing my progress and gives me time to reflect on things. My bootcamp journal sort of devolved into this. I've found it very helpful when people can post comments and advice about what I'm doing. And maybe my journal even inspires others like me. But rather than continue posting in that thread I decided to start a livejournal. I think it would be a great opportunity for aspiring DJs to start a community so we can read and comment on each others' progress without creating so many threads on the discussion forum here. I think it would create a stronger sense of belonging and encouragement among aspiring DJs and that would be a very helpful thing. Here is the link to my journal:

http://www.livejournal.com/users/dapper_swindler/

If you're not interested in starting your own journal, you can still comment on others. If you want to start a journal and join this DJ community then you have to have someone with a livejournal account already to give you permission. I'm not sure if that person has to have a paid account or not (mine is free).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Walden

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Yo DS I just linked you to my page.
Good luck and good hunting.
 
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I put you on my "friends" list, anyway.
 

Dapper Swindler

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bump
 

comic_relief

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Journals

my journal is over at Eternals site.

I am probably going to read as many journals as I can though. So keep updating.

Mine is long because that I started mine on July 18th.

Keep updating and give me more journals to read guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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