"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ + FRIENDS = Don't.

MrS

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Do not use any DJ methods on girls you want to be friends with.
Or, like, your friend's gf who you want to be friends with.
I almost ruined a great relationship over some bad moves, totally not on purpose, it just sometimes becomes second nature.
Don't be afraid to take a step back from friends, say sorry, admit a mistake, because friends are friends, not random hoes you can drop at a moment's notice.
This may not be the same for everyone, but I just thought I should post this to "warn" any guys out there who might ruin a potentially great friendship over kino, or sly eye contact or something.
Probably only in high school this kind of thing could happen, but nevertheless.
Peace.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NYC Dude

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I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
Good.

Also, don't be your homie's girlfriends friend. That's his b*tch, and if they break up, you're in an awkward situation.
 

08aisaac

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I get lots of friends, with DJ tactics, because DJ is a lifestyle. lol.

It's always cool to use techniques, but don't break up friends, or there GF's, it never turns out well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anomalous

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The convo/action is more lively even when you use kino/neg hits (DJ'ing) on ugly girls.

But there is a limit to how big of a DJ you act around them.
 
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