"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ + FRIENDS = Don't.

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Do not use any DJ methods on girls you want to be friends with.
Or, like, your friend's gf who you want to be friends with.
I almost ruined a great relationship over some bad moves, totally not on purpose, it just sometimes becomes second nature.
Don't be afraid to take a step back from friends, say sorry, admit a mistake, because friends are friends, not random hoes you can drop at a moment's notice.
This may not be the same for everyone, but I just thought I should post this to "warn" any guys out there who might ruin a potentially great friendship over kino, or sly eye contact or something.
Probably only in high school this kind of thing could happen, but nevertheless.
Peace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
 
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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
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Good.

Also, don't be your homie's girlfriends friend. That's his b*tch, and if they break up, you're in an awkward situation.
 
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I get lots of friends, with DJ tactics, because DJ is a lifestyle. lol.

It's always cool to use techniques, but don't break up friends, or there GF's, it never turns out well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The convo/action is more lively even when you use kino/neg hits (DJ'ing) on ugly girls.

But there is a limit to how big of a DJ you act around them.
 
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