"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ + FRIENDS = Don't.

MrS

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Do not use any DJ methods on girls you want to be friends with.
Or, like, your friend's gf who you want to be friends with.
I almost ruined a great relationship over some bad moves, totally not on purpose, it just sometimes becomes second nature.
Don't be afraid to take a step back from friends, say sorry, admit a mistake, because friends are friends, not random hoes you can drop at a moment's notice.
This may not be the same for everyone, but I just thought I should post this to "warn" any guys out there who might ruin a potentially great friendship over kino, or sly eye contact or something.
Probably only in high school this kind of thing could happen, but nevertheless.
Peace.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NYC Dude

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I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I have to disagree. My female friends became all that more friendly and fun to be around after I started applying DJ principles such as C+F and neg-hits on them. I don't try to kiss-close them or anything, but at least in my case it helps to be a Don Juan.
Good.

Also, don't be your homie's girlfriends friend. That's his b*tch, and if they break up, you're in an awkward situation.
 

08aisaac

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I get lots of friends, with DJ tactics, because DJ is a lifestyle. lol.

It's always cool to use techniques, but don't break up friends, or there GF's, it never turns out well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anomalous

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The convo/action is more lively even when you use kino/neg hits (DJ'ing) on ugly girls.

But there is a limit to how big of a DJ you act around them.
 
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