"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ = fav song

joekerr31

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i just had a thought. you know when you are listening to your favourite song nad feeling the groove - that state of mind where you aren't thinking about life or any of its stresses, you're just enjoying the beat and losing yourself in it.

i think when you feel that way WITHOUT the music then you've got the DJ mojo running through ya. in a sense you become a living beat that makes women just forget their life and stresses and they lose themselves in you.

anyway, just a thought i thought id toss out there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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awesome dude just awesome, thanks for sharing.


"Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity."
Albert Einstein
 

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Yo Joekerr,


Yeah, I think that state of being that you just described could probably also be called BEING IN THE ZONE.

Yeah, I think it occurs when you're listening to music, PLAYING music, enjoying art, kicking it with the RIGHT girl, or whatever. It's like you are experiencing an unconscious form of MEDITATION--------You have successfully acheived a MOMENT of nirvana, where all is right with the world and YOU----AT THE SAME TIME.


Peace...one day.
 

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are you in the zone when you spank your hairy bagpipes?
 

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Music should inspire the individual...

Biggie Smalls is the illest!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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