"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ = fav song

joekerr31

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i just had a thought. you know when you are listening to your favourite song nad feeling the groove - that state of mind where you aren't thinking about life or any of its stresses, you're just enjoying the beat and losing yourself in it.

i think when you feel that way WITHOUT the music then you've got the DJ mojo running through ya. in a sense you become a living beat that makes women just forget their life and stresses and they lose themselves in you.

anyway, just a thought i thought id toss out there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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awesome dude just awesome, thanks for sharing.


"Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity."
Albert Einstein
 

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Yo Joekerr,


Yeah, I think that state of being that you just described could probably also be called BEING IN THE ZONE.

Yeah, I think it occurs when you're listening to music, PLAYING music, enjoying art, kicking it with the RIGHT girl, or whatever. It's like you are experiencing an unconscious form of MEDITATION--------You have successfully acheived a MOMENT of nirvana, where all is right with the world and YOU----AT THE SAME TIME.


Peace...one day.
 

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are you in the zone when you spank your hairy bagpipes?
 

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Music should inspire the individual...

Biggie Smalls is the illest!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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