"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All right... I'm new around here and I found something pretty nice in which I put great fate into. Thats - yes you guessed- DJ boot camp. But usually unlucky me finds it when its all over now - I think.

So, is it really over? If it isn't plz direct me where should I go, and if it is could it PLEASE start again - you can say I'm "a bit" interested in joining.... Please someone reply soon... :woo:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are you all evil??? :(

Please someone reply...
 

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What do you mean by starting it by yourself??? In this condition I am, I cant guide myself....
 

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That's why the DJ Boot Camp PDF was created... to guide you step by step. Here it is. I recommend you read the DJ Bible as well.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/djbc.pdf

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb

By the way, it's a bit unreasonable to expect someone to reply to your thread in less than 3 minutes. Sometimes you may wait hours or even days before someone comes along to give you an answer... :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry but I'm a bit pissed you know... Everywhere I go its like antivirus programs: you can d/l them but you cant use them... In other words so much information, so much wasted time AND IN THE END I CANT DO A THING CUZ I HAVE TO BUY AN E-BOOK... Evil guys... Making money on poor guys! Hell if I had money to throw or to wipe my ass I wouldn't be needing advice, now would I?

So you see, I'm quite normal -- just a bit on the edge :rolleyes:
 

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Sorry if I sound a bit cynical, but whats your IQ? Everything I linked you to is completely free... but if you clicked the links then you'd have found that out already. :rolleyes:
 

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I know I know, but sorry if I sound a bit pissed (and grateful) cuz I looked on about 100 to 200 sites and about 50 were paysites and the rest were the links to David DeAngelo - Double your dating... Its a bit frustrating if you know what I mean. If you dont then Im not the only one with problems here...

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Has anyone ever actually read that book? Is it good? Cuz I would never buy it - just wanna be sure how much did I miss...

Ps#2
Oh and my IQ is 189
 

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Originally posted by V0rt3x

Ps#2
Oh and my IQ is 189
haha well mines 192

PS#3
either your trying to be a comedian or you need serious counselling.
 

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Here's what I'd recommend.
  • Read the (free) DJ Bible before posting further, located here.
  • Read the (free) DJ Boot Camp, located here.
  • Start a (free) journal in the (free) DJ Discussion so you and others can track your progress.
  • Before asking a question, do a (free) search to see if it's been answered (such as "is double your dating any good"). The search button is located here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok ok I get it! I was just on the edge -- no need to get pissed on me I'm new to this site ok? So cool it.... :confused:

Originally posted by DJDanny
haha well mines 192

PS#3
either your trying to be a comedian or you need serious counselling.
ps#4
and no im not trying to be a comedian thank you for your thoughts - and hell I do need counselling: and guess what: thats why Im here :mad:
 

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Take a look at the thread "madgame's 2nd BC attempt" (damn I dont even remember if thats the actual name of my current thread :-D). I'm doing the BC at the moment, but you could still hop on the train, because I only started a week ago and I've modified the BC a bit for me, because I've a pretty hard time (and I'd rather take a bit longer for this whole BC thing than not to do it at all, as I've learned in life, that good things come to those that wait)
 

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thanks :)
 
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