"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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All right... I'm new around here and I found something pretty nice in which I put great fate into. Thats - yes you guessed- DJ boot camp. But usually unlucky me finds it when its all over now - I think.

So, is it really over? If it isn't plz direct me where should I go, and if it is could it PLEASE start again - you can say I'm "a bit" interested in joining.... Please someone reply soon... :woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What are you all evil??? :(

Please someone reply...
 

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What do you mean by starting it by yourself??? In this condition I am, I cant guide myself....
 

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That's why the DJ Boot Camp PDF was created... to guide you step by step. Here it is. I recommend you read the DJ Bible as well.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/djbc.pdf

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb

By the way, it's a bit unreasonable to expect someone to reply to your thread in less than 3 minutes. Sometimes you may wait hours or even days before someone comes along to give you an answer... :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry but I'm a bit pissed you know... Everywhere I go its like antivirus programs: you can d/l them but you cant use them... In other words so much information, so much wasted time AND IN THE END I CANT DO A THING CUZ I HAVE TO BUY AN E-BOOK... Evil guys... Making money on poor guys! Hell if I had money to throw or to wipe my ass I wouldn't be needing advice, now would I?

So you see, I'm quite normal -- just a bit on the edge :rolleyes:
 

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Sorry if I sound a bit cynical, but whats your IQ? Everything I linked you to is completely free... but if you clicked the links then you'd have found that out already. :rolleyes:
 

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I know I know, but sorry if I sound a bit pissed (and grateful) cuz I looked on about 100 to 200 sites and about 50 were paysites and the rest were the links to David DeAngelo - Double your dating... Its a bit frustrating if you know what I mean. If you dont then Im not the only one with problems here...

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Has anyone ever actually read that book? Is it good? Cuz I would never buy it - just wanna be sure how much did I miss...

Ps#2
Oh and my IQ is 189
 

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Originally posted by V0rt3x

Ps#2
Oh and my IQ is 189
haha well mines 192

PS#3
either your trying to be a comedian or you need serious counselling.
 

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Here's what I'd recommend.
  • Read the (free) DJ Bible before posting further, located here.
  • Read the (free) DJ Boot Camp, located here.
  • Start a (free) journal in the (free) DJ Discussion so you and others can track your progress.
  • Before asking a question, do a (free) search to see if it's been answered (such as "is double your dating any good"). The search button is located here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok ok I get it! I was just on the edge -- no need to get pissed on me I'm new to this site ok? So cool it.... :confused:

Originally posted by DJDanny
haha well mines 192

PS#3
either your trying to be a comedian or you need serious counselling.
ps#4
and no im not trying to be a comedian thank you for your thoughts - and hell I do need counselling: and guess what: thats why Im here :mad:
 

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Take a look at the thread "madgame's 2nd BC attempt" (damn I dont even remember if thats the actual name of my current thread :-D). I'm doing the BC at the moment, but you could still hop on the train, because I only started a week ago and I've modified the BC a bit for me, because I've a pretty hard time (and I'd rather take a bit longer for this whole BC thing than not to do it at all, as I've learned in life, that good things come to those that wait)
 

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thanks :)
 
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