"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dj boot camp: the journey begins!

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Lets start a boot camp?

Well i already have a improvement journal and i'm doing my bit but its not easy as there is no well defined way. I'm sure many of you on the self improvement path feel the same. It'll be interesting if we have levels, exercise and stuff. Hence it will be well structured, challenging and motivational at the same time etc etc. So all those who want to join in do inform. Additionally we would like the enlightened or master don juans to help us out on exercises which we should start with etc(well we can skip the eye contact exercise if necessary) . The first exercise will be put in three days time. So be quick to reply!
Lets do this!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Count me in!!

I should have completed my first week today, but all the work I had to do made me antisocial...

We start on Monday, ok?
 
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I tried DJ boot camp. I never actually finished it though since I work full time. I shall give it another go though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I started as well and made a thread. Had some solid success today looking forward to see how you guys fair!
 
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I will join. Im not a noob, and i have done a few approach in the past. To be exact 99. Im just thinking on what to do for my 100 approach
 
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Great to hear from you guys!! It makes me happy many of you want improvement and want it bad. Thats a good thing!
Well I gave it a thought. The areas which we'll cover will also include anger management, challenging oneself, "power of words and good dic-k-tion"(this is so necessary I can't even stress on it), building up charisma and charm, fearless attitude.(if you have any more ideas which you would like to cover then do acquaint us). I'm sure some might think or say "anger management i don't need that crap?" . . . Well others do and if you think you don't need it then skip it but I think it will only strengthen that area.
Guys do tell, where you have reached on this journey and we can decide the exercise accordingly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well this is my first time so guess the first point would be to somekind of how introduce a part of myself. I'm on week 1 and I'm also a barman. I've spend the the last 5 hours at the place i work (not in duty tho) it's been quite easy for me to make eye contact and say hi to different new strangers. I know this is the easy part for me (somehow). I'm a shy guy but since i've been doing this job for a year now it seems easier. good times! I focused on the eye contact as much as I could both on new people and peole I've known for a while (which is a totally different).

The night went great and I got this feeling like this could be a great journey!

PS: i'm from quebec, canada, my first language is french but I enjoy writting in English. I'm not sorry for my mistakes but I would be glad to learn.

enjoy your week guys!
 
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Oh btw, offering a girl's a glass is okay but make sure it's not a way to be recognize... just a pleasant gift. Thx to Senor Fingers and all you guys for that but make sure you have a great followed plan for it. This is about you, not them for being simply cute.
 
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Started early sorry guys. Making good progress though don't plan on slowing down anytime soon but if you wanna see how I've been doing check it out
 
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Is it too late to join? I'm starting out on week 1 as well
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in. I tried this before and only got to week 3 and then I choked!
 
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Feeling excited? Tomorrow we begin our journey to enlightenment! And trust me when I say this, you will remember this all your life. Two advices I want to share which once was told to me: 1st) You already need to possess/have what you want from others(Igetit).
2nd) The less you think, the more you see, the better you act.
Fuc.k it! I swear i'm even willing to die to sort this shi.t out and I will sort it out.
Good luck to all of you fellas. We are gonna make this .shi.t happen
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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