"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dj boot camp: the journey begins!

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sexyfaceme

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Lets start a boot camp?

Well i already have a improvement journal and i'm doing my bit but its not easy as there is no well defined way. I'm sure many of you on the self improvement path feel the same. It'll be interesting if we have levels, exercise and stuff. Hence it will be well structured, challenging and motivational at the same time etc etc. So all those who want to join in do inform. Additionally we would like the enlightened or master don juans to help us out on exercises which we should start with etc(well we can skip the eye contact exercise if necessary) . The first exercise will be put in three days time. So be quick to reply!
Lets do this!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Count me in!!

I should have completed my first week today, but all the work I had to do made me antisocial...

We start on Monday, ok?
 
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I tried DJ boot camp. I never actually finished it though since I work full time. I shall give it another go though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I started as well and made a thread. Had some solid success today looking forward to see how you guys fair!
 
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I will join. Im not a noob, and i have done a few approach in the past. To be exact 99. Im just thinking on what to do for my 100 approach
 
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Great to hear from you guys!! It makes me happy many of you want improvement and want it bad. Thats a good thing!
Well I gave it a thought. The areas which we'll cover will also include anger management, challenging oneself, "power of words and good dic-k-tion"(this is so necessary I can't even stress on it), building up charisma and charm, fearless attitude.(if you have any more ideas which you would like to cover then do acquaint us). I'm sure some might think or say "anger management i don't need that crap?" . . . Well others do and if you think you don't need it then skip it but I think it will only strengthen that area.
Guys do tell, where you have reached on this journey and we can decide the exercise accordingly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well this is my first time so guess the first point would be to somekind of how introduce a part of myself. I'm on week 1 and I'm also a barman. I've spend the the last 5 hours at the place i work (not in duty tho) it's been quite easy for me to make eye contact and say hi to different new strangers. I know this is the easy part for me (somehow). I'm a shy guy but since i've been doing this job for a year now it seems easier. good times! I focused on the eye contact as much as I could both on new people and peole I've known for a while (which is a totally different).

The night went great and I got this feeling like this could be a great journey!

PS: i'm from quebec, canada, my first language is french but I enjoy writting in English. I'm not sorry for my mistakes but I would be glad to learn.

enjoy your week guys!
 
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Oh btw, offering a girl's a glass is okay but make sure it's not a way to be recognize... just a pleasant gift. Thx to Senor Fingers and all you guys for that but make sure you have a great followed plan for it. This is about you, not them for being simply cute.
 
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Started early sorry guys. Making good progress though don't plan on slowing down anytime soon but if you wanna see how I've been doing check it out
 
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Is it too late to join? I'm starting out on week 1 as well
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm in. I tried this before and only got to week 3 and then I choked!
 
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Feeling excited? Tomorrow we begin our journey to enlightenment! And trust me when I say this, you will remember this all your life. Two advices I want to share which once was told to me: 1st) You already need to possess/have what you want from others(Igetit).
2nd) The less you think, the more you see, the better you act.
Fuc.k it! I swear i'm even willing to die to sort this shi.t out and I will sort it out.
Good luck to all of you fellas. We are gonna make this .shi.t happen
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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