"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ boot camp is starting for me, asap

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wats up all,
:rockon: i'm starting this DJ boot camp and this post per rules therein.
i am not a total loser, i have plenty enough confidence to get a good job on the spot, i've had several l-t relationships from moments of macness, blah, blah...
i'm new here, i've been single for 4 months now, i'm plenty good looking (for a 5'8" guy), and i don't even know for sure what an AFC is, but i must be one, cuz i'm just plain bad with people in general, and getting worse by the day. i'm a serial ex gf contacter, and i chase people off like it's my job, and this needs to stop, now. so here goes....
finding this site was an obvious gosend for me, and you guys who share your skilz and expz i thank:up: .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, so a little more context, becuz i think this is gonna be great...
1)I live on ohio state campus and am constantly surrounded by smokin' women.
2)I don't drink
3)I am not trying to nail broads like i'm throwng up a roof
4)Six months ago i was totally, flat broke, electricity turned off broke, and had no job
5)on day 1 wk 1 i have a good job, $ in the bank, and TODAY my power got turned back on.....like i said, i think this is gonna be good
 
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Creepy, I was just going to post the same exact thing. Anyway, I'm still an AFC with major self issues and a lack of backbone and confidence. I always wanted to do the boot camp, and I think it'll be easier if you know somebody out there is doing the same thing. Anybody else interested?

Also, I'm interested to hear from people who did it. How much have you improved by the end of it?
 
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test reply cuz i don't see my first one

not a computer guy
 
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ok, so for context

1)i live on ohio state campus and am surrounded by hot,smart women
2)i am NOT trying to nail broads like im throwin up a roof
3)6 months ago i had a psycho girlfriend of 4+yrs &
4)i was totally-utterly-flat-broke &
5)had no job prospects &
6)my electricity was OFF(yah)
7)having come back (moderately) i have a good job, no women in my phone except for my mom(yah) and my landlord(think 'Kingpin'), and TODAY i got my electricity turned backon
:box: this is gonna be great!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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welcome to the site. and good luck man. Hope you get what you want/need from the site. :)
 
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