"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ boot camp is starting for me, asap

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wats up all,
:rockon: i'm starting this DJ boot camp and this post per rules therein.
i am not a total loser, i have plenty enough confidence to get a good job on the spot, i've had several l-t relationships from moments of macness, blah, blah...
i'm new here, i've been single for 4 months now, i'm plenty good looking (for a 5'8" guy), and i don't even know for sure what an AFC is, but i must be one, cuz i'm just plain bad with people in general, and getting worse by the day. i'm a serial ex gf contacter, and i chase people off like it's my job, and this needs to stop, now. so here goes....
finding this site was an obvious gosend for me, and you guys who share your skilz and expz i thank:up: .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok, so a little more context, becuz i think this is gonna be great...
1)I live on ohio state campus and am constantly surrounded by smokin' women.
2)I don't drink
3)I am not trying to nail broads like i'm throwng up a roof
4)Six months ago i was totally, flat broke, electricity turned off broke, and had no job
5)on day 1 wk 1 i have a good job, $ in the bank, and TODAY my power got turned back on.....like i said, i think this is gonna be good
 
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Creepy, I was just going to post the same exact thing. Anyway, I'm still an AFC with major self issues and a lack of backbone and confidence. I always wanted to do the boot camp, and I think it'll be easier if you know somebody out there is doing the same thing. Anybody else interested?

Also, I'm interested to hear from people who did it. How much have you improved by the end of it?
 
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test reply cuz i don't see my first one

not a computer guy
 
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ok, so for context

1)i live on ohio state campus and am surrounded by hot,smart women
2)i am NOT trying to nail broads like im throwin up a roof
3)6 months ago i had a psycho girlfriend of 4+yrs &
4)i was totally-utterly-flat-broke &
5)had no job prospects &
6)my electricity was OFF(yah)
7)having come back (moderately) i have a good job, no women in my phone except for my mom(yah) and my landlord(think 'Kingpin'), and TODAY i got my electricity turned backon
:box: this is gonna be great!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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welcome to the site. and good luck man. Hope you get what you want/need from the site. :)
 
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