"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome new recruits. It seems like we're getting more and more every days!

Since we're already on the second week, just start out on the first week, and take it from there. You'll be behind one week, but there will always be more people coming in... so this thing will become a moving parade of sorts, with different people at different lessons.

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in. This is a good idea, these are the kinds of ideas that take this forum from medicrocy to greatness.

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a bump, for those who wish to join, and to get the links to the previous 3 weeks...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey Sarge, when can we start with lessons #4 & 5??? I'm ready, even if it does mean 10 rejections!
 
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lesson 4 has aready begun. im wondering about lesson 5 tho. im going to bring it up in a thread

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Ralph Bellamy,

Week #4 is in progressive. Just go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014756.html for complete info.

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you" - Master of the Universe

"You can never know everything, and part of what you know is always wrong. Perhaps even the most important part. A portion of wisdom lies in knowing that. A portion of courage lies in going on anyways." - Lan Mandragoran, The Wheel of Time
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Time to catch up the Sun.

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Sky high aspirations?Persistence is the key.
 
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Yah im late too im wondering should i just start up by myself and post results or wait for you guys to start up again if your going too?????
 
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aight another quick question
do you have to read all of the disscussion after the initial post?? dont get me wrong im as up for reading as the next guy but some times its just congrats and props for a good post. Im guessing we do since some of the ETA's are around 5 hours. oh yah and Pook is a bad boy
 
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Read them if you want, you often get many clarifications, more info, interesting stuff out of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All the new participants: welcome aboard, and start posting your results!

We're all here to help each other, so if you have any questions along the way, just post them and fellow boot campers will help if they are able.

Master of the Universe

P.S. Peter Parker, as to your question, follow MistyC's advice.

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Originally posted by Master of the Universe:

P.S. Peter Parker, as to your question, follow MistyC's advice.
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MotU...

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It's Mystic or mystic, not MistyC. My nickname has nothing to do with mist, and everything to do with Mystic, but with the i and y changing position

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LOL!

Sorry about that MistyC... err... Mistyc (j/k).

Seriously though, thanks for bringing that up, I always wondered what the heck your name was supposed to mean.


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Bring boot camp on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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