"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome new recruits. It seems like we're getting more and more every days!

Since we're already on the second week, just start out on the first week, and take it from there. You'll be behind one week, but there will always be more people coming in... so this thing will become a moving parade of sorts, with different people at different lessons.

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in. This is a good idea, these are the kinds of ideas that take this forum from medicrocy to greatness.

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a bump, for those who wish to join, and to get the links to the previous 3 weeks...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey Sarge, when can we start with lessons #4 & 5??? I'm ready, even if it does mean 10 rejections!
 
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lesson 4 has aready begun. im wondering about lesson 5 tho. im going to bring it up in a thread

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Ralph Bellamy,

Week #4 is in progressive. Just go to http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/014756.html for complete info.

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you" - Master of the Universe

"You can never know everything, and part of what you know is always wrong. Perhaps even the most important part. A portion of wisdom lies in knowing that. A portion of courage lies in going on anyways." - Lan Mandragoran, The Wheel of Time
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Time to catch up the Sun.

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Sky high aspirations?Persistence is the key.
 
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Yah im late too im wondering should i just start up by myself and post results or wait for you guys to start up again if your going too?????
 
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aight another quick question
do you have to read all of the disscussion after the initial post?? dont get me wrong im as up for reading as the next guy but some times its just congrats and props for a good post. Im guessing we do since some of the ETA's are around 5 hours. oh yah and Pook is a bad boy
 
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Read them if you want, you often get many clarifications, more info, interesting stuff out of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All the new participants: welcome aboard, and start posting your results!

We're all here to help each other, so if you have any questions along the way, just post them and fellow boot campers will help if they are able.

Master of the Universe

P.S. Peter Parker, as to your question, follow MistyC's advice.

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"You can never know everything, and part of what you know is always wrong. Perhaps even the most important part. A portion of wisdom lies in knowing that. A portion of courage lies in going on anyways." - Lan Mandragoran, The Wheel of Time
 
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Originally posted by Master of the Universe:

P.S. Peter Parker, as to your question, follow MistyC's advice.
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It's Mystic or mystic, not MistyC. My nickname has nothing to do with mist, and everything to do with Mystic, but with the i and y changing position

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LOL!

Sorry about that MistyC... err... Mistyc (j/k).

Seriously though, thanks for bringing that up, I always wondered what the heck your name was supposed to mean.


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"You can never know everything, and part of what you know is always wrong. Perhaps even the most important part. A portion of wisdom lies in knowing that. A portion of courage lies in going on anyways." - Lan Mandragoran, The Wheel of Time
 
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Bring boot camp on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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