"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ElStud

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Touchout said:
Elstud, I don't want to brag but I'm far past you in "this stuff" but I'm still doing this, I recommend you do it do, by the time you get to like week 3 and 4 it's all about getting numbers and setting up dates.
You probably are, but that doesn't change the fact that I'm just trying to get numbers and day 2's right now. I only go to the mall once and a while and I wouldn't want to be slown down any more than I already am. I know I can converse with people, I know I can go up to women, this would kind of slow me down unless we started at like week 5 or something. Just doing "Hi"'s and eye contacting people wouldn't even being challenge. And I can already start conversations which really doesn't help because rapport doesn't matter until she's attracted.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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navyseal2101

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Yea i'm past this too, but i'm still starting from the beggining. If anything it will improve your basic skills, so it's not a bad thing.
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
You probably are, but that doesn't change the fact that I'm just trying to get numbers and day 2's right now. I only go to the mall once and a while and I wouldn't want to be slown down any more than I already am. I know I can converse with people, I know I can go up to women, this would kind of slow me down unless we started at like week 5 or something. Just doing "Hi"'s and eye contacting people wouldn't even being challenge. And I can already start conversations which really doesn't help because rapport doesn't matter until she's attracted.

Yes, I understand where your coming from and it is entirely your choice, but even on weeks 1 & 2 you can go farther than just hi's and conversations, as far as I know there is no rule against that. Just something to think about, look at the journal of that one guy who finished it (he got to like week 8 where he started making up his own goals because there was nothing left), look at the change he was able to make. Personally, that's what I'm looking for, to have a constant supply of women to date and ****, at least for the summer. But hey, as long as your going out and trying to improve I guess your doing better than the majority of people here.
 

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I can't edit my first post for some odd reason but I know you guys are good to go. ElStud most of us are way past getting our confidence up so this is more for fun. Due to me having to work extremely long days until Monday I'll be starting Monday but you guys can start tomorrow if you want. I'll be starting a new thread on Monday for everyone to post their results so far.

Thanks
 

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I'll be starting a new thread on Monday for everyone to post their results so far.

Thanks
Once you make the thread, PM a HS mod (me, Vincent, mpimpin, or Plec07) and we will stick the thread.

One minor note for people reading this: You may NOT post your own journal outside of that thread. We don't want or need 15 different journals taking over the forum. Sign up now so you can post in that thread.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ItWasntMe

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GaryUranga said:
k but my bootcamp starts monday
That's perfectly fine. Post your results at the end of every week (since you're starting on a Monday you'll be posting every Sunday) and possibly midweek if you wish to share an experience or if you're way ahead in your exercise and you just want to brag lol.


Virtual tyvm I'll pm all 4 of you and whomever stickies it first, well... just gets to be proud of stickying it lol.


Thank you all so far whom have joined. Remember I'll be posting the log thread on Monday.
 

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Quick question, why are we giving our MSN and AIM's?

Are we gonna have weekly discussions or something? Or is it just so we have each others.

Thanks and good luck everyone.
 

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Supremo said:
Quick question, why are we giving our MSN and AIM's?

Are we gonna have weekly discussions or something? Or is it just so we have each others.

Thanks and good luck everyone.
Just creating more of a connection between people doing this instead of just the forums. Plus we don't want to spam up the forums accidentally with irrelevant conversations that can be held over msn. I also find that msn is also a bit more convenient than the forums. You don't have to if you don't want to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, I've been looking for something like this. My msn is [email protected] . I just totally stuffed up with a girl, that I thought I loved, so I am totally up for the bootcamp
 

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Tonight im going out for a few hours to a shopping center. My goal is 20 Hi's. UPDATE: Not one HB was there. Mabye I picked a bad spot.
 
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Got another Hi, but it sparked a convo and a potential relationship. I got contact info and such, so it was a success.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Virtual tyvm I'll pm all 4 of you and whomever stickies it first said:
Monday[/B].

Well looks like I lose that race...I'll be driving from OH to AL all day Monday
 

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Count me in, although in 2 weeks I will be visiting France and Italy (what better place to practice than in a foreign country with hundreds of beautiful girls u might never see again...) so my posts will probably be around 2 am this time...

[email protected]
 

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Any word on our thread?
 
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well I find lookign at random ppl ok but saying his is a bit off, have had lots of eye contact today, no probs with eye contact for me, only had a couple occassions when I looked away becaus eI wasnt being concious of my eye contact but overall 95% of it was easy they always looked away first, as for the his I made eye contact with 1 lady and said hi cause she smiled, a pretty hot lady :p so 1/50 his, I'll get lots tomorrow pushing my confort zone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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